ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

Why do men just suddenly go quiet?

Fathers, brothers, friends- they will be happy cheerful jolly one day and next day silence! Won't share what's bothering them

If we ask too many times, then we are termed as nagging

4mo ago
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SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

Idk about father but as a brother I don't share because I don't want to give unnecessary stress to my sibling and as a friend I think most of them don't care and once you open up they will use it against you when time comes.

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

Why not? Siblings have the best interests, maybe they can help better

SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

Idk I have younger brother, so it always feels like he will not understand the situation and why to give him unnecessary stress then, It might be false, but it's just the mindset

WigglyMuffin
WigglyMuffin

Men are like this only. 🙌

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

Hum kare to mood swings Men kare to like this only 😏

Na-insaafi

WigglyMuffin
WigglyMuffin

Nhi Aisa nhi hai we think there is time for everything. Har time Bolte Rehna we don't like. Men and women are built different. Who says if women does this than mood swings? I don't say it.

SillyCupcake
SillyCupcake

Something to do with avoiding edge cases perhaps..

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

What're edge cases here

SillyCupcake
SillyCupcake

Disagreement on minor issues. Which have no effects on daily lives but the disagreements are the war of individual philosophies. For example exercising is good everyone knows. But when to exercise becomes a real issue. One says morning is best and the other says evenings are best. The issue aggravates and creeps into other talks too. This happens sometimes. That's why the next few days go silent on agreeing on every issue without being vocal about your disagreements which makes me smile.

SnoozyMuffin
SnoozyMuffin

Men don’t like to share there problems They like to solve them on their own Unconsciously they think that they will be perceived as weak if they go to others for solutions
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Men are from mars and women are from venus Its aboutdifference in behaviour n psychology of men and women

QuirkyNarwhal
QuirkyNarwhal

because that's how men try to resolve their issues without bothering others, they will go beserk but won't share it, sometimes poeple call it being egoistic and arrogant but even after sharing it or being vulnerable with someone (no matter who they are) it feels it's not worth it and people just use it against them.

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