BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

Why do men just suddenly go quiet?

Fathers, brothers, friends- they will be happy cheerful jolly one day and next day silence! Won't share what's bothering them

If we ask too many times, then we are termed as nagging

3mo ago7.2K views
Logs_reader
Logs_reader

Idk about father but as a brother I don't share because I don't want to give unnecessary stress to my sibling and as a friend I think most of them don't care and once you open up they will use it against you when time comes.

BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

Why not? Siblings have the best interests, maybe they can help better

Logs_reader
Logs_reader

Idk I have younger brother, so it always feels like he will not understand the situation and why to give him unnecessary stress then, It might be false, but it's just the mindset

splender
splender

Men are like this only. πŸ™Œ

BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

Hum kare to mood swings Men kare to like this only 😏

Na-insaafi

splender
splender

Nhi Aisa nhi hai we think there is time for everything. Har time Bolte Rehna we don't like. Men and women are built different. Who says if women does this than mood swings? I don't say it.

TheIterationGame
TheIterationGame

Something to do with avoiding edge cases perhaps..

BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

What're edge cases here

TheIterationGame
TheIterationGame

Disagreement on minor issues. Which have no effects on daily lives but the disagreements are the war of individual philosophies. For example exercising is good everyone knows. But when to exercise becomes a real issue. One says morning is best and the other says evenings are best. The issue aggravates and creeps into other talks too. This happens sometimes. That's why the next few days go silent on agreeing on every issue without being vocal about your disagreements which makes me smile.

ddlj
ddlj

Men don’t like to share there problems They like to solve them on their own Unconsciously they think that they will be perceived as weak if they go to others for solutions
To understand more you can read
Men are from mars and women are from venus Its aboutdifference in behaviour n psychology of men and women

tyler
tyler

because that's how men try to resolve their issues without bothering others, they will go beserk but won't share it, sometimes poeple call it being egoistic and arrogant but even after sharing it or being vulnerable with someone (no matter who they are) it feels it's not worth it and people just use it against them.

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