My girlfriend left me because I make 14LPA...
I met my girlfriend during college, 5 years ago. We were so much in love. I remember we used to go on dates to picnics, museums and the works. I spent and invested a lot of money and time in this relationship. I feel that my life is purposeless now that she has left me. Her father is a very high ranking government official. He has gotten marriage proposals from very well endowed political connections. Apparently some ex-CM's son is out in the marriage market looking. I don't know why but I still thought we would make it. Like, nothing can come between us. She texted me last night that she was leaving me because I only make 14LPA. My hands are still trembling. I want to go be the best version of myself and simultaneously think that the train tracks are looking comfy to sleep on.
Don’t cry brother. Salary is subjective.. it might be 14 today, it will increase tomorrow. I personally feel you got saved from a gold digger.
You gonna get much more beautiful and honest, loving girls in Arrange marriage.
All the best.
@DentalEnterprise I have no strength for marriage right now. I had already dreamt of a home with her. A family. Now I feel nothing but darkness. I had depression and anxiety before and I know I need to seek therapy.
I was in the same phase as you! You will get over it. Join gym, go on bike rides, do some trekking..
Trust me after that you will be relieved. Prepare well. Switch for a higher package. Simple.
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You are worth so much more than someone finding your value in the package. Just work hard and find the right person along the way.
@SafeGram8 Sahi mei. I am trying to get over her but I cannot get over my emotions for her.
It will take time. Be ready to go through the process. Someone once told me that when a person leaves us it's not exactly the person we are missing but rather the habit of that person that we are longing for. Unlike any other habit it will take time to break. But just think about this if the girl left you only because your salary is low as per her standards then she could have left you at the worst of times and that would actually have been bad. You'll feel worthless for sometime but its the very fact that you should try to change.
When she has a range of getting married to Ex CM’s son. How come she was dating you since 5 years ? ? Sounding like cooked story 💁🏻♂️ this can only happen south movies
God has better plans for you. Just believe in him.
If she really wants to be with you, she wont took this step. She is shooting the gun from someone else’s (father) shoulder.
I also had faced the same thing last year. MBA batchmates together for 4years. Both family parents met also but her family keeps on giving lame excuses like
joint family hai..
boy package is same as girl package
my girl is healthy your boy is fit…
girl will not live with boys parents under same roof…
height (5’7) same hai toh barabar ki jodi nahi blah blah rubbish.
I got married this year. Beautifully amazing wife who takes care of me and my parents. We are happily living with our family and I honestly have no regrets.
Jisko karni hoti hai woh karleta hai.. no point to regretting and crying.. if you are a good human then god will definitely gonna do good to you. Maybe it takes some time and kuch papad belne padhe but eventually you’ll not be disappointed.
Never lose your self respect. Respect your parent’s advice and have a deep conversation with your close friends.
All the best man!! 36 aaegi 36 jaegi teri waali teri mummy laegi :p
IamBiztech
Student
3 months ago
i am also 5ft6-5ft7 not a 6ft don't know exactly but kuch aasar hain to get a lovely, amazing and beautiful partner ?
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Tu nahi to koi aur sahi ,koi aur ni to koi aur shi ,lakho hasee hai is jamane me sanam tu akeli to nhi
Hang on buddy, focus on your skills and switch with high package, you will get a better one (who’s not a gold digger)
She wants to act like that but she is a gold digger bro. No manipulation can take away a person to be a partner for life. Cheating is not a mistake it's a choice
Absolutely correct
If she was not then she would have never mentioned about your CTC
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Bhai, you will have pain for a few months that's understandable. Take counselling.
But you will be happy more than ever in a few years time, take it from me in writing.
You got saved from-
1. gold digger,
2. extra marital affair
3. an unexpected divorce
4. saved your future kids
5. court cases for alimony settlement
6. anxiety, depression, health issues
God plans some accidents for good.
Cry for few days and move on.
There’s nothing any of us can say that’ll make you feel better and this is sad what happened. But if she left you for money, it’s better she did it now than later man. Hang in there, pick yourself up and do your best. You might or might not make insane amounts of money but you can be a good man.
Her loss! She is choosing money over love.
It will be really difficult for you to move on but you deserve someone who can love and respect you back.
Meet your friends and seek help from your closed ones if you are feeling suicidal. Please keep your self busy in work or with family, your life is worth more than spending on someone so greedy.
This cycle never ends, getting 14 LPA is a dream for a million people.
Sending hugs! Stay strong!
Bro what you are earning someones dream salary. You better focus to up skilling yourself, money will follow you. If you want to marry any time soon, marry a girl suitable for you and start loving her. But don’t ruin your mental peace thinking about the girl who left you and it shouldn’t be the blocker for up skilling yourself. Focus on yourself and your family. It’s enough to live a life at fullest.
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She will realise don’t make hasty decisions think larger than life if you want you can earn more money than that and get a better girl .. move one you will get the best
14LPA is decent money if you really know how to save and invest and spend. Moreover, your partner obviously would earn something too, so the combined income can give someone a good life depending on the lifestyle.
Coming to your situation, I am truly sorry but you do deserve better. Partner leaving someone because of such petty reasons is nothing but stupid. It’s good that she left you know rather than leaving you later after marriage. You might not believe me but she didn’t deserve you at all. Please reach out if you need someone to talk.
@Corpslave95 It doesn't feel like decent money anymore. 14LPA sounds like shit money now that she has left me.
Just change the perspective and shouldn't you actually be happy. She left you for money, then it's good that she left you now and not afterwards. I know you cannot be rational now, but as a third party viewer, it happened for good.
find someone who loves not by your salary package who loves by your character.
@Cookingmeth That is not possible in today's world. Baby kehndi pehle aap jaguar lelo, phir jitni marzi pyaar lelo.
StanleyHudson
Stealth
3 months ago
Dont lose hope king !
Keep improving yourself
Keep introspecting
Keep hustling
It’s good that with trembling hands you can write a well formatted long post here😅. Don’t worry buddy, soon you’ll be alright. No one can compete with Politician🤣🤣
FirstSofa
Student
3 months ago
Broo just take it easy, I have also 3 years of relationship with a girl and she chose another one smarter and more active than me. Things like this happens. Just move on
