SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student

Asked my girl best friend out,8 years of friendship from childhood.

She said no, I thought after I will get job (15LPA+) I will ask her out but turned out life doesn't go according to you.

Feeling lost, looks like I don't have the person with whom I used to share my daily life with.

Suggestion please.

Counting on senior to help out this junior ♥️

7mo ago
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SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

You felt something,took a shot, didn't worked out, no worries, move on, someone else will come into your life.

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student7mo

Wonder if this much I can give to someone else

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle

Think of it this way. If you can give something / someone this much, you can surely replicate this albeit every interaction is unique. You won't find someone EXACTLY like her again. So instead of looking for the same person, look for the same feeling. Find someone who puts you at ease or comfort.

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

But what made you think she was considering a romantic turn to your friendship? Just because she talked to you everyday doesn't mean she felt for you.

I'm sorry the situation wasn't in your favour, but sometimes it is for the best

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student7mo

We used to flirt alot Long calls on weekends
Regular chats She used to intimate meet-ups ...and many more :)

DancingTaco
DancingTaco

That’s why I say friendship and relationship are different. Friendship should be there in a relationship but not vice-versa.

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

Wow.... 8 years Have you watched "Meri pyari bindu". You don't need to feel sorry, or lost about it. She was not yours , she is not yours that's it. Enjoy what you got, and let her enjoy what she lost. Pyar to sab karte hai. Lekin koi aapse pyaar kare, ye sabko naseeb nahi hota. So you're not in any kind of loss. Be happy

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student7mo

Will see meri pyari Bindu Thanks for suggesting

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

Watch it .. but don't replicate it in your own life... I have been through a similar situation, so I know, you will definitely come out.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Gym jaao, bench press maar

GigglyWalrus
GigglyWalrus

Sigma spotted

TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal
Student7mo

+1 @Rhombus

WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit
Student7mo

If she never had a boyfriend that she was desiring for then she is looking for that and may be she wanted someone who you weren't my friend (every girl has a different criteria,) but you were her comfort zone but never felt that spark for you ,

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student7mo

She never had a bf

WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit
Student7mo

Exactly what I told you , actually the problem is this social media nowadays which are setting their bars high which is not a realistic thing most of the times

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