This just shocked me while reading. Can't imagine what you are going through bro !! May your father's soul rest in peace - Om shanti 🙏 
 Just stay strong brother. May bhagwan gives you all the power and guidance you need.

Data scientist

I can relate to your situation. I lost my father It’s been an year now. I suddenly have responsibility of taking care of my mother and sister all by myself. I am doing my best you can do it too just take some time. It’s ok to grieve and take some time for yourself. Take care of your family. it’s world of lie and greed. Your family are the only ones you can trust. More power to you.

Consulting Associate

What you are feeling is part of grieving process. It happens to many of us when our parents or anyone we look upto leave us. Don’t feel that you are alone.  
  
 Time heals many things and you’ll learn things your way. Just Keep an open and positive mindset.

Application Engineer

The truth is you cannot trust anyone and you shouldn't. Stay strong. Hope you get all the strength needed.

Software Engineer

Exactly...sometime even I am scared if I can be as great father to my kid as my father is to me, if I marry...

Software Developer

Om Shanti.  
 May the departed find their peace.

Product Manager

This is a very difficult time my friend. It's okay to doubt yourself, it's okay to not feel alright. Give yourself time to breathe and don't put everything on your shoulders alone. Lost my father 4 years ago and I still feel i can't do half the things he did but we manage as a family. The void is huge and father's do a lot of things silently, seeking no credit. Read up on stoicism as well, it definitely helps. 
 All the lord's blessings with you my friend, you will get through this

Strategy & operations

I have been living with my parents and recently lost my father and suddenly felt like I have lost the protective shield. I was very much dependent on my father for all the people dealing that I nev...

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I have been living with my parents and recently lost my father and suddenly felt like I have lost the protective shield. I was very much dependent on my father for all the people dealing that I never realised people are so self centred and emotion less. Everyone is thinking about themselves including so called near and dear ones. I don't get whom to trust and whom not to.  Worst part is I never felt he was so important in my life when he was alive and now that he has gone I can't do anything to bring him back. 
Missing my dad so much.

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I feel my life is extremely difficult after demise of my beloved father at the age he should have  not left us this early he was 51 and now without him my life is just extremely difficult in all aspects  , people around me , relatives , career aspect marriage aspect future everything just scares me and  i feel i cannot reach out to anyone for my help not even my mother with my problems I feel if i reach out to anyone they just shut it like dont overthink , please stop with your negativity I just dont know how to get on with life He was like shield to us Now i dont know even me , my mom , my sibling has changed like anything Nothing feels good anymore

Loosing a parent

Analyst

To the people who lost a parent young( I'm 24), how are you coping the loss? I lost my dad 2 months back. It was sudden. I'm still in shock. Many of our peers don't understand the feeling we are going through. How did you find your support system?

Losing a parent

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Living far away for a better life (money,edu,etc)

How much do you miss your parents

MOM said this line to me, today again. 

There have been countless times, when I have heard this from throughout my childhood. And then, people ask me why you don't love your mom. 

I don't feel bad anymore as I have accepted this sentence for life. But it made me understand that, words like these can kill anyone's self confidence, moral and belief to stay alive. 

I am thankful to my mom, that she made me strong enough in my early days that when someone says anything harsh to me now, I don't give a fuck. 

Guys, always be wise to choose the words you speak to someone, even if you are in immense rage. 

I am using this platform to share this, because I can never tell this to anyone else. Even, I haven't told this to my girlfriend who has been with me for the past 4 years. 

SPREAD LOVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN ❤

"Wish, I never had you"

Does anyone have fights with their father especially boys? How do you deal with it?

Are the conflicts usually due to your own mistakes or carelessness? If so, how can they improve?

PS: I am 26 M living in a tier 2 city

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How do you deal with this guilt of leaving your parents behind when they need you the most? Also, if you have done something regarding this, please mention.

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I'm seriously considering going low or no contact, but I'm terrified of the fallout. Has anyone actually cut off toxic family members? How did you do it?

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