Aise harkate karega toh jo organically milne vali hogi voh bhi nahi milegi bhai

Bhai. Tu kya job pe jake khud apply krta ha, linkedin pe post krta ha? Yaa fir ghar bethke bolta ha - organically job dedo??

Analytics Manager

Agar Carrer ke liye efforts put krne zruri ha toh life companion ke liye bhi zruri ha. 
 Good vibes✌️💚

Software Engineer

Meh toh jaag ra hu. Vo bs aane wali ha zindagi meh

Himmat mat harna bhai. Ayegi woh , dekha!

Frontend Engineer

I am not in Hyd for now. But let's connect and see when can we meet

External Audit

Are you promoting grapevine diapers indirectly? 
  
 cc- @Micheal_Scott is it?

Not diapers but tissue paper for all the people who are crying in comment section

Lol, I was referring to a story that happened long time ago 😌 
  
 Beautiful times

Growth Manager

And let me tell you, along with these critics I met a wonderful lady (less than you though) who felt these posts. We will invite her to wedding

Strategy & Operations

Data engineer

@Micheal_Scott yeh kya kya dekhna pad rha h 🙃

I care about you, not about what people say. I am thinking about you, not about what people are thinking about me. I just want you to be here. And one day we gonna post over here telling all these ...

I care about you, not about what people say.
I am thinking about you, not about what people are thinking about me.
I just want you to be here. And one day we gonna post over here telling all these critics that "We waited for each other and put down the efforts by posting here even when we had not met"

I love you 3000🤍

Day 3 of finding my cutie 🤍

Day 3 of finding my cutie 🤍- Grapevine

To all men who have never ever been loved by anyone else except their parents...

Software Developer

M29 / Never felt love ever in my entire life 

I’m a M/29 good looking , well educated and in a good paying job. All through my life I’ve never felt loved or been in a proper relationship. Ive been respected , valued but never really “loved “. Ive got a really good friends circle and good parents who love me but this is different . I’ve liked a couple of girls in the past , spoke to them for a while but never took off until a relationship level. I’m also not a person who would shoot a shot at every girl just to be in a relationship . 
Currently I feel really desperate to be loved . I love myself but there’s a constant desire to be loved by someone . sometimes even a small act of affection from opposite gender makes me wonder if it’s love . People would know constantly ask me why I’m single even after being a well qualified bachelor which hurts even more. Looking for some genuine advice how to get over this feeling or if this feeling is valid .

Never been in love

Welcome to Get Motivated's Private Community

I know a special person who make my life in hard times and dull times so beautiful we just met on online platforms and we become frinds days gone faster now we are not just online friends we become so closer and i fallen love with that person more than 5 times still loving that person without knowingly myself and then I understand that person told to me in one time 
" we are more than friends and more than lovers " and now I started realising what that person told and we both made a promises together for our life and now I trying full fill the promise so soon . I don't know why I've always think about that person is that person safe or not happy or sad . At one stage without knowingly I hurt her so much after that the person forgive me and understand inner child in my self .now no more hurting we are going to next stage to upgrade our self but I missing those old days with that person really without that person I can't stand again after having very down fall in my past life I think everyone should have like kinda this special person in their life . GUYS IF U HAVE THAT PERSON DON'T MISS THEM BECOZ THEY ARE MORE VALUABLE THAN GOLD OR DIAMOND.

My life before meeting her

Data Team

I always looked at her and felt she is so beautiful, charismatic, and had an infectious smile. Looking at her made me smile broo.

Chapter 1
One day I decided to ask her out. I messaged her and our conversation grew then she spilled out that she also liked me a lot. And she was glad that I asked her out.

Chapter 2
She had studied in an all girls school and she had a stereotype about boys that they are all stupid and bad. And girls and boys should never be together. I was fine because atleast she liked me 😂. One fine day she asked me to break up with my brosss. I asked her why?
She said your friends are all playboys and I don't like the way they look at me. (Disclaimer: My bros are really nicest guys and I have known them since childhood they are the best gentlemen). We had an argument which didn't end on a good note.


Chapter 3
I left to a new state for my Job. After I reached there she messaged me that we can't talk and we have to stop whatever we had. I got anxious and worried and spent my 5 months not being able to contact her. I got into depression. Then me being restless on my birthday I came back to my hometown. At exactly 11:59PM when my bday was going to end she messaged me "Happy Birthday". I was so happy to see her message.

Chapter 4
We started talking and she said that she is leaving to Canada for her higher studies. I was happy for her but at the same time I was sad. I didn't want to see her go. We both cried and stayed on call till morning watching each other sleep.

Chapter 5:
She reached Canada and she completed her formalities and procedures. We talked for few more days but then eventually she started giving me hints that she is not interested. Then one day she abruptly messaged me and said we can't talk and we have to end everything. I cried the whole night, because there was no way for me to contact her and she had blocked me.

Chapter 6:
It has been 1 yr to that day. Somehow I have gone numb. I'm slowly forgetting her.

She left me.

Chill. After 5-6 years you will laugh on yourself that why in the world you gave so much importance to her. There is no derth of good women in this world. Moving her away was god's plan, for your good that you might never understand. Take Care!

Consultant

Write about a time you made someone feel very nice. Hopefully it can be a collection of ideas that others can take forward. If somehow a few people do something nice as a result, that would be powerful.

To start with an example: Bought a laptop for my grandfather because he wanted to continue working post 60. Helped him learn Excel, Gmail, Chrome browsing over many days. He really picked it up, and works as a consultant for new companies in the industry he worked all his life.

Good people of Grapevine: What's the nicest thing you've done for someone? (family/friends/a stranger) 🍀

You know its the small things that you do everyday that matter - giving your staff an off when they ask and not cutting their pay, feeding stray animals, quietly paying the bill when you know the other person is struggling financially, not haggling with street vendors for 100rs (when you’re paying 800rs to eat popcorn in PVR), changing the topic of conversation when you realise someone is feeling uncomfortable yet cannot say in front of others… we all need high empathy skills 🙏🏻

Senior Designer

Corporate Strategist

Welcome to Confessions's Private Community

Are you a momma's boy?

The past year has been the best!
I'm engaged to my long-term partner, making the first person I loved, my last.
I'm working in my dream company and dream role 
I've finally moved out and have a healthy distance from my controlling family
I wish I could say all of the above but you know what they say "You plan. God laughs'
My life has become a joke. 

After years and years of nurturing my relationship and working on myself,  I've achieved nothing personally or professionally. Being an overthinker, I'd detail everything from plan 'A' to plan 'Z' to ensure my dreams come true. I had an extraordinarily amazing relationship but when it came down to marriage he didn't have time to even think about it. I have a brilliant resume filled with distinction grades, extracurriculars, and leadership roles, and yet I couldn't score an interview let alone be shortlisted for any role I wanted. With no choice, I'm stuck in a job that I absolutely hate and have no interest in! And finally, after 26 years of living with my family and growing up to be a responsible adult and doing everything and more, they ask me, they still think the worst of me, call me names, hardly acknowledge my presence, and make me feel guilty for barely living my life. 

I'm honestly so emotionally drained and feel like my whole life has been a struggle, hoping for things to get better someday. But all I feel is stuck. Everyone around me is moving on with their lives - getting married, moving to a new city/country, getting roles in dream companies and I'm nowhere close to anything I want. 

Being a practical and logical person I would usually not take advice from random strangers on the internet but I'm keeping an open mind and I'd love to hear your thoughts on my depressing life! 💔 

People below 25 yrs don't bother commenting, unless you want to start a crowd fund for my therapy. 

P.S. The last para is a joke. Don't come at me about it in the comment section. I do need therapy though, but can't afford it. Not from an experienced psychologist at least.

Don't read if you believe in "dreams"

A friend of mine complemented me today, 
Felt unusually great
Gentle reminder: sweet complements to other won't hurt

Random compliments make a day better

Welcome to Movies & Music's Private Community

It can be the lyrics, it can be the music video or music.

I'll go first -

1. KSHMR & Lost Stories - Bombay Dreams
It is beautifully crafted video dealing with shame in pursuing something others despise or make fun of. The music video makes me smile at around the end

2. Passenger - Let her Go
The lyrics are so damn pure gold. It's so common sense but truly hits you especially when you are by yourself and it just sinks in! Love every line of the song and I think the lyrics are relatable for lot of people

3. Ritviz - Sage
Beautiful video, talks about acceptability and how people are threatened by something they don't understand and how world could use more love and it would be such an amazing place!

What are the songs that makes you emotional?

What are the songs that make you emotional?

I know it's anon platform but I am waiting for "my prefect girl". If you feel we can vibe, I am waiting for you in DM.

Day 2 of finding her on gv

Welcome to Office Gossip's Private Community

I want to focus on
- health, will join gym
- get into a relationship, I seriously want to be loved and love someone
- make new friends in new city that I will shift
- invest my money 
- develop my personality to more fun loving one than a serious one

My new year goals

Analyst

Sometimes people use certain people for the transient phase to heal themselves and then move one once they are able to rediscover themselves. 
While this may not be purely intentional at times, this does leave a sense of worthlessness in the other person's soul. And then the person feels "used" and breaks other people's heart and the cycle continues.

It can become a vicious loop if things are not clearly communicated.

How do you figure out if someone is genuinely in or using you for rebound ?

These are my thoughts that go through my head as I work towards a healthy and happy life. I wrote them down to never forget them, and come back to them whenever I lose sight. I am sharing this here in hopes that this might help someone else too, as a lot of us are going through something or the other since we got into adulthood. This is written in first person, so read it as something you are telling yourself :)

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It happened, it's in the past. There is nothing that I can do to change it. I can only learn and grow from my mistakes, from the wrongs that happened to me. I can change where I am, how I am and how I live my life. I have that power, and no one can take that away from me.
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This time would never come back. If I don't like how my life is today, my standing, then I need to work on changing it. I need to ponder on the question "Do I want to be at this same place a few months down the road?" Yes, I am talking about months and not years, because if I don't like where I am today, I shouldn't be liking it ever, and it doesn't have to take a long time for me to realise this.
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I won't ever have everything figured out, such is the nature of life. It's not a script; instead it is unscripted and spontaneous. There would always be something new, something that would demand my attention, something that is unfamiliar and uncertain, and I have to learn to live in the flow of it all.
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I don't know where I am going, what will happen, what life has in store for me. I don't know anything, but isn't that beautiful? That this is that mysterious book, whose pages turn with time. But at the same time it isn't a mystery at all because what would happen to me would be the result of my work and efforts, at least to some extent, to the extent where things are under my control.
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And if something went out of control in the past, till when should I punish myself over it? Till when should I keep doubting myself, keep being afraid? I am wiser now, and my future self would be too. I need to have faith in myself and believe that I am going to make the right decisions. I have a sensible head on me; I am intelligent, and aware. 
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Also, what is going to happen is unknown, uncertain, so why do I keep forgetting my own words? That I am not afraid of failing, rather I am afraid of not trying. Let's never forget it ever again. Let's do this life right, let me do right by myself. Let me live this life to the fullest. Let me gift myself the life I would be proud of having lived when I take my final breath and leave this world behind. Let me be present. Let me do it all and more. Let me squeeze life in the tightest of hugs that I could ever give, and not be the first one to let go. Let life let go of me when it's time. So until then, let's do this zindagi!

Let's do this zindagi!

Me & Who ? 😊

Senior Software Engineer

I wanna share my pain and feelings to someone who can understand and who is going through the same situation in life

I want someone really mine..

Human Resources

I am 28F working with an MNC. Ive realised that existence is pain and there is not much to be alive for because everything is temporary- all the beautiful places, moments, and people. 

I am just a breathing body with lots of love in her heart for the world, but no emotional energy left to share because I feel that everything is fake and everyone is a hypocrite.

Why do you get up from bed everyday?

How to find true love? 
Need genuine suggestions. Please help me

Right Partner

I have been talking to this woman lately at work since the past 2 months (I KNOW dating at workplace isnt a great idea but pasand aagai kya karu) . Currently, we are mere workplace buddies and not in a relationship. 

On somedays she is like really friendly with me and starts talking about her life and I love listening to her. 

On certain days she is extremely unapproachable and feels like a stranger. 

I know mood swings hote etc but why would she ignore me completely on some days while try to engage in meaningful conversations on other days.

It keeps alternating and its very annoying. 

I feel like supporting her on bad days but she doesn lt want that it seems.

Yeh odd even kar kar ke mai thakk gaya hu
I just want her. Every single fckin day of my life. 
She makes my day a little more worthy every time we talk, and I feel when you find such people, you shouldnt let them go !

Day 3 of finding my cutie 🤍

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