For the Men Who suffer in silence For they can't call Even if they heart out Not a ear to listen  For they Blame themselves for everything Consider themselves failure Even sorry to exist For failin...

For the Men
Who suffer in silence
For they can't call
Even if they heart out
Not a ear to listen

For they Blame themselves for everything
Consider themselves failure
Even sorry to exist
For failing as a Friend, Son, Husband and a Father
They feel to failed as a Man

For they want 
To be punished brutally
For even the devil fears
For all the failures he had done

For he felt
He didn't mattered
His thoughts were meaningless
He was a mere tool
A version of him being used by everyone

For he for the last time
Wanted to live, to love
Even for a day

To feel the joy he once felt when he was a kid
Still thankful to the Big Brother who once fed him
His favourite thing

For he realised he was always weak
His efforts weren't enough

❤️

For the Men

For the Men- Grapevine

Fathers, brothers, friends- they will be happy cheerful jolly one day and next day silence!
Won't share what's bothering them

If we ask too many times, then we are termed as nagging

Why do men just suddenly go quiet?

Consultant

To all men who have never ever been loved by anyone else except their parents...

Software Developer

Appreciate every adult who are either trying to fix their lives or have made peace with the challenges in their lives.

Small correction, everyone instead of every man

Software Test - QA

whatever maybe the situation, Self Respect should always be on priority 🙂

If I had to give ONLY one piece of ADVICE to every single guy out there: 👇

Senior Software Engineer

Hi
In final year right now of my BE
My entire college life 
I am feeling left out
No friends, 
If I need something I ask my classmates
It feels odd
It feels week
Why as a MAN I am feeling such emotions

Even accepting the fact myself that path further ahead will be like this only
But still in mind, somewhere
I believe if I had someone to talk to
Someone to share everything I have
It would have been better
Yet again weak thoughts

How as MALE adults you overcome
Or you don't give a f*ck about it
More like "hey, I don't even have time to feel shit"

Pls throw some light on these thoughts
I am open to every discussion

Is feeling lonely, as a MAN, OK?

A final year student

I made a lot of mistakes in my life
Never ever worked hard to my fullest potential
Didn't studied well even though I had potential during JEE
Keep getting attracted to girls(very few times), even though I am training myself not to.

Becoming emotionally down often
Feeling guilty of not being able to have someone to talk to.

What I simply want is to work to my fullest potential without getting attracted to the other gender so that there are no distractions and becoming mentally strong to the point that I don't need anyone else continuously present in my life for me.

There has to be a way
Almost everyone around me are so strong
My gut believes I don't have that much time left
I just want to fix everything for my parents and my brother
And leaving with a pride and honor of a MAN.

How to Forgive OneSelf?

Welcome to Confessions's Private Community

One of the toughest day of my life started on 03rd September, 2024. I just did not want to leave my bed at all. The world that I imagined has just crumbled. The future that I envisioned no longer cease to exist. Sense of failure in all aspects of my life has hit me. A failure in professional life, a failure as a son, a failure as a brother, a failure as a friend, a failure as a partner. A complete failure in a nutshell. This is the lowest point in my life where I want to run away, from everything. Not care about anything, not face anyone, and just run away.

Day 1 of misery

Product Manager

I have been living with my parents and recently lost my father and suddenly felt like I have lost the protective shield. I was very much dependent on my father for all the people dealing that I never realised people are so self centred and emotion less. Everyone is thinking about themselves including so called near and dear ones. I don't get whom to trust and whom not to.  Worst part is I never felt he was so important in my life when he was alive and now that he has gone I can't do anything to bring him back. 
Missing my dad so much.

Confession

Program Manager

Welcome to Mental Well-being's Private Community

Big post rant !!!

32 years old Male, born and brought up in UP.
Parents native to Karnataka, post bachelor’s got job in Microsoft on third party payroll working as support engineer for Azure Identity.

Wanted to prove my worth to the organisation and make my parents proud, unfortunately things turned out bad had to leave in a years time.

8years into the industry i see my batchmates my friends and younger ones making 4X money at minimum what i make currently (16LPA), married but again things are not turning well for me.. I have lost all interest from life don’t feel like going out, learning new things no hobbies also just working on office tasks since it provides paycheques.

I really feel like I am left behind and will always be left behind. I know life’s not fair but I just have lost it at all corners of my life.

Its just that i am living for my parents !!

Lost in Life !!

I will tell you a real life incident. One of my batchmates was an average guy, okayish in studies. He even got an job with very low pay. He left the job to try for government exams or business. After couple of years gap he joined a small private organisation again. Worked hard and moved to another organisation. Now after all these years he is working in Europe at a handsome salary, married and lives a good life. Point being, everyone’s life clock is different. You may feel stuck today but tomorrow might be better.

In the silence of the morning, a whisper cuts the air,
A message cold and distant, a news too hard to bear.
Dreams built on dedication, now teetering on the brink,
A heart beats heavy, wondering what to think.

Hands that once were busy, now tremble in the void,
A future once so certain, now painfully destroyed.
Colleagues turned to family, faces etched with strife,
Together we once thrived, now fragments of a life.

Hope flickers dim, yet stubborn in the dark,
A search for new beginnings, a flame ignites a spark.
For even in this sorrow, strength will find its way,
In the wake of endings, dawns a brighter day.

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