I am from a conservative family, and during my first long-distance, my mother had extreme problems with her. We broke up recently, and my mother has not changed. She still stalks our socials and thinks I am talking to or meeting her as if it is a sin to do that. I came home from a business trip yesterday, and I want to go out back again to escape from this.
I cannot spend my late 20s like this anymore. I am a freelancer, so I do not have an excuse to move out, but living like this is suffocating.
Any advice?
bachha hai kya, bol de jaa raha hoon aur chale jaa. Zindagi bhar parents ke drame kp cater karega to jiyega kab
The advices people are giving here.
Do you even think before speaking?
This is about parents and home we are talking about. The one you'll come back when the world turns back on you
Didn't know when did this become "us against them" with parents. The comments section looks like a bunch of privileged kids who've never really known pain.
Exactly
I think you might want to explore how to set boundaries
Get up and walk out.
Come back when you want.
If they don’t open the door, move out.
Time to move out of this home. You are better off elsewhere. It hurts but Indian homes and youngsters are always at crossfires however much you try
All the best to a new life 😊👍🏻
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