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@JadeArgent, I hope your question isn't sarcasm. You aren't actually thinking of this, right? 
  
 Although the points laid out actually do make sense and are actually amazing points. Totally forms basis of a healthy relationship. 
  
 As far as your ex goes, Screw him! Why base who you are on what someone else says?

@BladeRunner007 , my bad, I did call out if it was sarcasm, didn't realise the image could've been as well

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OMG this one's my connection, just saw her post

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Why do people write such shitty post on LinkedIn?  Kaam nhi hai kya kuch aur

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Is this sarcasm? Where do people find such clients? I haven't been "dream wife" material for my ex boyfriend for even a second, how does this work????

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Is this sarcasm? Where do people find such clients? I haven't been "dream wife" material for my ex boyfriend for even a second, how does this work????- Grapevine

I see a lot of girls today have this condition of not staying with in-laws after marriage. I want to know the opinion of both genders on this. As I myself don’t understand what difference it makes. 🫠

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Welcome to Office Gossip's Private Community

Had never told him, was never gonna get married to him anyway (different religion)
Just that his wife isn't as hot as him, kinda let down 🫠

My ex-Office crush got married, why am I sad though 😢

I am smart looking, age 28, 5.10ft,6 abs. Goes to gym regularly and hot.

I can 
- cook amazing food, veg& non veg.
- do  cleaning, laundry.
- have a great sense of humour. 
- income- 12 lakhs 

I am looking for a girl with
- salary 1 CR p.a 
- should be hot. 
- cooking skills can be zero. I can cook. 
- age is not bar, even older than me is eligible.

Other criteria: 
 - vacation everyone 6 month abroad. 
- best of bunglow in any tier 1 city excluding Delhi (too much of pollution).
- should be good in bed. 
- no questions on the amount I spend on her credit card.

You can your share bio data in comments

Looking for a girl in arranged marriage.

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Do people actually find spouses through this shit??

Am in my mid 30s from south working in Mumbai for a PSU. I’ve been declined in matrimony websites owing to location and perception of PSU. Is this the new normal?

Difficulty in finding matches for marriage in Mumbai

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Welcome to Confessions's Private Community

I am 28 F working from home since past few years. I've recently gotten promoted and my in hand TC has increased to 1.2 cr/year. I have been looking for arranged marriage prospects but unable to find. I am very worried that I will become undesirable because of my high salary! People who approach me are only approaching because of my TC and not real connections. They have desires of purchasing house, etc. How can I find a real connection and what is to happen if I'm unable to find someone. If there is someone in this boat, please share your thoughts.

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Women can reply too. This is hypothetical anyway

If you were my husband, & I say I don't want to work. How do you respond?

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Your opinion?

Recently I have come in a new relationship and i can see all the girls have pretty high body count including my girlfriend

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Despite the "modern era" we live in, many of us still find ourselves on the path to arranged marriage—often feeling like it's the only option we have. Speaking from personal experience, I've had my fair share of bizarre encounters. Hearing similar stories from my male and female friends who are also going through this process has provided some comfort, especially knowing that I'm not alone. 
Let's use this comment section to share our experiences—whether they were bad, weird, gut-wrenching, blood-boiling, or even heartbreakingly disappointing

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Actually I never dated , never had a girlfriend. In school I liked a girl but she rejected me . In college, I found that girls in my class are not compatible ( I mean they have other interests in their life , I have other interests) . And now I will be graduating from college, have a job of 8.55 lpa but never had a girlfriend. I thought I can date in the office but reality hit me that I can't date in my office. Going forward ( after a year ) I am aiming for a remote job . Then I will go back to my village ( I have reasons for that ) . But I fear that I can't get gf there because my village is conservative. Let me tell you that I am a shy guy and I don't believe in this cliche " go out and talk to women" because I can't start talking rubbish just for shake of talking. So please advise what to do ?

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Ok guys, I am fed up with Bumble, jeevansathi and the sorts.

I do get decent amount of acceptances and right swipes but the one’s who I end up liking want to have ONS or casual dating and the ones who want to take things to next level, I am not that interested. 

What should I do? I am serious about settling down. 

Where do I meet women who are great human beings, kind, successful and want to settle down :)

Need a wife!

Associate director

Tl;Dr - 100+ matches in less than a week, but the experience still sucks as a guy.

Hadn't tried using premium+ on bumble, it was them basically copying Tinder in this aspect by tiering the likes and features further. 

Seems like most dating apps trend towards 3 or 4 tiers: free, premium and premium+ 

I used to get matches as a free user with occasional premium subscription (one week max). That changed a while ago, roughly when they introduced premium+. Thought I'd give it a try and share my experience as a user in NCR. Hadn't used bumble in a few years either.

Some numbers : 
🔴10-15% of matches expired without any messages exchanged 
🔴50-60% of matches did not initiate or put effort in conversation
🔴5-10% looking for sugar daddy and passenger princess treatment
🔴5-10% are absolutely unhinged and desperately need doctors and therapists. 1 psycho blocked. 
🔴 Remaining profiles are scammers and fake 

The sad part of being an average guy on dating apps is that you don't usually get matches 99% of the time. And when you do, it's often shitty nonetheless. The level of entitlement in women on dating apps is way too high, with very little substance to offer. 

On the plus side, did get a few decent contacts (10-15) and some are also interested in attending my dating mixers too. Haven't met any of them yet, will see how it goes.

To those who want more matches on bumble, give premium+ a try with good pics and profile. It could be a very different experience for you in a different metro city. Planning to visit Mumbai and Bangalore soon, might try this there as well. Don't think it's useful for tier 2/3, not enough users there in the first place to need premium. Happy to help you with profile suggestions and consultation if need be.

But please be very careful, don't exchange insta/numbers too soon, and watch for scammers who ask you to come to a specific location/restaurant only. Always decide the place of first date yourself, letting women decide is too risky these days.

Got any questions? Comment away ✌️

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How did y'all miss this?!

Program Manager

I have been online on a lot of sites (shaadi.com, Bharatmatrimony etc) for 2 years now but it’s been really hard to get a guy.

There have not been many expectations, just a decently well educated guy who can talk with respect to ladies (I find it really hard to get guys of the latter, on these sites)

Those who were successful in arranged marriage, how did you do it? Any tips please. Should I pay some matchmakers? Suggestions are welcome.

How to find a hubby?

So i’ve been Noticing her for 1.5 months now.. she notices back like hell.. she is Indian from south.. im from NCR ..working in HYD.. she’s kinda cute.. spiritual, all Green flags.. but i don’t want to take risk as she is senior 1 year.. one wrong step can ruin things.. now I’m trying to not think about her.. but she’s stuck in my mind like nothing else.. seeking help.. any suggestions to get out of this !!

Is this sarcasm? Where do people find such clients? I haven't been "dream wife" material for my ex boyfriend for even a second, how does this work????

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