Love and Standards

Everyone uses a version of you That fits their interest Still acceptable 178 cm Brown skin Always left out Gym Personality development sab try Kia Khud k career development k liye roj ragda Khud k health k care Kari Par breaking aa gya hai I eat alone in the office POSH k dar se females se dur rehta hoon Drawing Flute, in sabhi k clubs join kiye I was well versed in them when I was a kid To find someone Par no girls in sight, even if they were I was not even an option. But still I cannot come close to the ones who were gifted I am invisible to girls Kuch khaas jine k tamana nhi hai mere Par Ek din k liye Ek Sundar dikhne wala insaan Banna chahta hoon Jise dosta gender romantically attractive Lage Kya koi hai idhar jinke halat mere jaise ho

Grapeviners, can you, with all honesty convince a non-believer like me into getting married and having children. If you do, my parents will send a million blessings your way. About me: - Female, 28 - mostly introverted, very selectively extroverted - single and normally attractive - Jinxed when it comes to relationships - Financially independent, Net worth: 1 cr - not bragging, but I'm decently intellectual and I can have smart conversations My reason to resist marriage is: I'm scared it won't work out and will cause bigger problems than being single. Have seen too many unhappy marriages in family and friends. Dating scenes in recent times have only made things even more unimpressive.

Or I expect too much after watching romcom series and movies ?

The girl I’m dating is a perfect match but she doesn’t care how she looks. She could easily be 8/10. She has poor dressing style and awful eating habits so she started becoming fat. How do I ask her to change without breaking her confidence and heart? I really love her but this could be the deal breaker.

Am in my mid 30s from south working in Mumbai for a PSU. I’ve been declined in matrimony websites owing to location and perception of PSU. Is this the new normal?

Comment and share what went wrong 😬

Sometimes people use certain people for the transient phase to heal themselves and then move one once they are able to rediscover themselves. While this may not be purely intentional at times, this does leave a sense of worthlessness in the other person's soul. And then the person feels "used" and breaks other people's heart and the cycle continues. It can become a vicious loop if things are not clearly communicated.