I think I deserve love but I am not getting the love that I deserve
Or I expect too much after watching romcom series and movies ?
Kamlesh
Stealth
5 months ago
Korean rom com is like the ultimate fantasy, not even close to reality
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You do deserve it if you think so. But, Just to let you know, are you giving that love to your partner? It's not a 1 way street. You give what you expect to get
I see. Then if you have certain expectations, talk to your partner. I am sure the person will reciprocate and understand you.
In the off chance he doesn't , not sure what you should do though, one option is to move away from the relationship if it is indeed a dealbreaker
Donut
Stealth
5 months ago
Yup, watch true crime documentaries. Youād be glad youāre still alive and not in someoneās basement or gone missing or killed in ways unimaginable. Its a crazy world out there- be happy with what you got. A lot of people didnāt get the chance to live theirs.
steppenwolf
Stealth
5 months ago
There is no problem in expecting. If you think you deserve it, you might actually get it. Keep Manifesting.
Romcoms are like p*rn for the romantics, imo. They set unexpectedly high standards, making it difficult for people to engage in real meaningful relationships. Having said that, it's best to identify what you think is the love you deserve? Write it down and test them over a period of time. Are they reasonable? Can you do the same for someone else? Lastly, if your partners are males then you'll need to work hard because most men do not have the emotional understanding and communication skills to meet your standards. If the other person is willing to put in the effort to try, then it's a win.
samosa
Stealth
5 months ago
I read somewhere
love/money are like orgasm, if you focus too much on making it happen, it might not happen and if it happens, you won't be able to enjoy it
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