She bought coffee to my desk
Its morning and I had just reached office for my work. Its my ritual to go and quickly grab a cappuccino coffee for myself and I sit for work. This time something weird happened, this girl whom I see everyday for work and I have also chatted a little with, bought me a cup of cappuccino coffee with the correct amount of sugar in it. Guys should I drink it? Idk how to decline because I dont want to be mean. She is sitting right infront of me. And why would she brink me a cup of coffee??? Does she like me? Is this some corporate hint for asking someone out?
satan
Stealth
2 months ago
so this cappuccino girl, is she in the room with us right now?
LokiPen
Stealth
2 months ago
Stop overthinking.
It would mostly be just an empathetic act towards a co-worker.
Don't overthink at this juncture. It is just a coffee and take it as only a coffee.
Nothing has happened so far..she is just doing her work. She is not at all talking too or making eye contact. Looks super busy. I got suspicious because no one has ever been this kind.. unless they wanted something from me.
First of all, you should have thanked her for bringing you coffee, when in today’s time people even smile forcefully at their colleague🤦🏻♀️
Secondly, she might have observed you grabbing a coffee everyday so she could have just brought it for you empathetically! Don’t overthink and ruin someone taking care of you!
I understand your point. But I have learnt this much that people have their own shit going on and they don't bother bringing anyone a cup of coffee out of the blue. If someone is putting efforts like that it becomes obvious.
😀FYI: We talked yesterday and she said she likes me and that was a gesture from her to initiate things. Lets see what the future holds.
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If a girl takes one step, it is natural for a guy to think 5 steps ahead. That's not an issue. But I would suggest it's too early for you to pick up hidden meanings from just a coffee. People can be kind and helpful without having hidden agendas
Update:
We were a group of 6 and we ordered our food. Normal chit chat was happening and suddenly her friend prompted a question to a guy friend. "Who do you think is a better match in the table?"
Me: *Alright this is going in that direction.*
He acted like thinking and then he took my name and the cappuccino girls name. Then everyone was supporting it. I looked at her and she was blushing.
2pm: (We came back to office)
4.30pm: Just completed my work. Coincidently the cappuccino girl lives in the 3 km radius from my home. Now we are heading home together in metro. 😂 (She is cute guys...I'm definetly asking her out)
EarthDragon
Stealth
2 months ago
Ask her for coffee out next week. Then Irish coffee maybe.
DonQuixote147
Stealth
2 months ago
Haven't you heard of the famous line : Guys misinterpret girl's friendly behavior as love and Girls misinterpret a guys's love as just friendly behavior!
Its just cliche line. But yes, the girl can be just kind and brought you a coffee. Thank and pay it back to her with a chocolate or something. If it start to happen on a regular basis, then you should be worried (or excited?).
DaringTrain
Stealth
2 months ago
You should casually chat with her and gauge it.
Thats the plan. Will share the rest by EOD. Because I definitely feel something is different today.
You can offer her a coffee in return.
Out of curiosity:
Is she in the same tech as yours?🥹
Is she a senior or are you both at the same position?😎
Is she married?😁
Is she planning to switch?🤣
These questions might help you in moving further. Whether you want to be friends with her or not...😇 All the best.
Then start by asking the general info and proceed further as per your mindfulness. All the very best. On a priority, focus on the work and upgrade the current skill set you have. 😁🙏
Now one of her female friend came and asked to join them for lunch in some restaurant. I said yes, and I saw her giving teasing look to the girl who bought me the coffee. Guys its definitely a setup right?? I think her friends are helping her.
Setup for what ? 🤷♂️ dude, just chill enjoy.
Even if it is for what only you and god knows, you are a grown up man, you can say NO to anything later.
Boss, Infosys ho aap pehle hi. Saari chutiye companyonka sardar hai wo. Focus on getting into a Product based company with a killer CTC. Bandi coffee bhi degi and you know what else degi....
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