Go about it. I have a totally different upbringing from my life. We are solid and we have openly talked about it, which has helped. She does not envy my privileged upbringing.  
  
  Privileged upbringing is not a choice, its not her fault that she was born in a wealthy household. 
  
 Talk to her openly about it, after apologising to her. Talk it out buoy! All the best!

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Software Developer

Ask her out dude. Tell her that you were high or you just put your opinion but didn't have any envy towards them. It's the only life you got. If she still rejects, consider she has no interest.

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Give it a try. The worst case is she will say no.  But the best case is a whole life ahead. Atleast you won't be regretting it a year down the line.

Oh sounds great 😺look ahead with it🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

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I met her via a matrimonial site, we spoke like crazy for the first 34 days, it was non stop, i honestly thought that's it this is the girl I wanted to be with, she was fun, extrovert, pretty, had ...

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I met her via a matrimonial site, we spoke like crazy for the first 3-4 days, it was non stop, i honestly thought that's it this is the girl I wanted to be with, she was fun, extrovert, pretty, had a very close knit of 3 friends (all girls), was focused on her career, was smart, didn't have any crazy past, etc

I happened to f***k up, i unnecessarily put the conversation in the wrong direction, taunted people with privileged upbringing and what not, but that was all bs, I tried to be someone else in front of her. And she got a bit nervous about it.

And eventually she ended up saying no, cause we have a different upbringing, and different mindset and it could be a problem in the future. And all this rejection happens right after I meet her.

I was appalled, not able to accept what just happened that too, this quickly, i still think she decided too early. We could've given this more time. She ended up texting that we can still be friends. Even today I feel like i should say this up right and see what happens, i don't know when was the last time I met someone like her, she was special for sure.

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Should I still ask her out?

Should I still ask that girl out?

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Should I still ask that girl out?- Grapevine

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I like this girl who I've been friends with for over 5 years now. My intention is to have a long term partner, ideally leading to marriage and I want to be clear about this upfront. She meets most of my non-negotiable criteria that I want in a partner, is nice and I think we are decently compatible. She's in my thoughts more than enough for me to know that I really do like her.

I was in a relationship with another girl for >4 years, but we broke up about a couple of years ago. I was very sure that I was going to stay with that girl forever and the break up was extremely unexpected. That also created a lasting fear of rejection in me about trying to find long term love, which is why I'm also a bit afraid of approaching the current girl.

We also have tons of mutual friends and are decently good friends ourselves, which I don't want to ruin in case things go south after I approach her. 

I'm ~25 right now and wish to get married before or around the age of 26.5-7. Considering that, this might be my last shot at finding long term love myself.

What would you do in such a situation? Any tips for me in what I can do?

Please share tips: I like this girl but don't know how to approach.

Today is gonna be the last day of my college life 
, There was someone to who i adored a lot , loved a lot ,spent a lot of time together just to hear at the last moment that we are just friends despite of the fact that the things were much more than a friendship ,I blocked her on 21st sept 2023 after one year of beautiful memories i made with her and she tried to reach out to me but couldn't, The bond we shared defined a lot of things and I was there just to let my heart got shattered, maybe she didn't find me compatible or whatever but literally I never thought that things could turn out like this . Tomorrow is the last day of my college, she will come , I'll Also be there , i have memories, regrets , pain together, what will I say to her if she'll try to talk to me ,What should I say , if I will avoid her , i will regret and if she will talk to me then there will b a pain , whatever was there in my heart i have given everything to her , Time will fly but memories will be there...

Last day of my college life...

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Hi,
I am in service based company, Graduated in 2022 and did internship in MERN Stack in BYJU's Exam Prep for 10 mos 
As I had worked in start up , I am having decent knowledge of at least completing the task. I need to switch badly.

Girls were never my friends , no point of GF.
Fast forward to now , I am in a project and working on React. There is a girl of same batch and we are working on frontend only.
Our dev started in May, and at that time we chit chat for normal queries. After a day or 2 , She started to discuss approach with me, I was ok ( as I was talking to girl no feelings at that time, and was discussing logic). And then slowly the scenario become like she use to call me on teams for any single query , and I in excitement talked to her. I loved her voice had not seen her as our stand up was on teams.
I used to help her , and she gives the update like " I am doing this" / " I am doing this , facing some issue, and trying to resolve that "
And in each case I was there with her.
And then this continued uptill 20 July . I was getting feelings for her , like why a girl is talking to me without even seeing/ knowing. I was interested w/o any reason. I just need a partner to share feelings.
And then then due to project requirement , we were asked to come to office. We came on Monday , i helped her normally as we used to discuss with each other on teams. We both saw each other on that day for first time face to face. Her task was going ok, and was supposed to complete on Tuesday, bu by reaching office she use to connect with seniors instead of me and they use to tell her the approach not doing her task. Hence this took full week. I was noticing this from Tuesday to friday (23-26) and we were gradually decreasing our conversation..

Our accomodation is in company's society.
I talked to her and her 2 friends in Friday night when I was roaming out. We made plan to go for mall / Iskcon. On Saturday we went outside. For Sunday i asked her to go out she said.......

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When I was doing my masters in economics last year, I met a girl. I was instantly attracted to her, however never got a chance to ask her out. Eventually I did, and we went out a couple of times. I really liked her but I think she considered me a good friend. I got mixed messages from her. Once, she sends me text messages in the middle of the night asking me to take her to lunch tomorrow and another she doesn't reply back to me. Anyway I persisted but eventually she kinda distanced herself from the relationship after we hooked up. I had fallen for her but she wanted no part of anything. Didn't return my calls or texts, or when she did made up excuses to avoid hanging out. 

So I told her how I felt. She was angry at me for ruining our friendship even though we hooked up, which she instigated. I never saw her again for the 3 months( she went to Delhi for some work) but she called me occasionally if she needed to talk or something.

So she left and we remained in touch via Whatsapp. On one occasion, I made a passing joke as to how she spent time with every dude there but me. She became very offended and we stopped communication. She started it up again but didn't apologise.

Finally, I actually visited Delhi because another friend of mine was getting married and invited me. I didn't visit her because of time constraints and she became pissed, and wouldn't talk to me, accusing me of doing it on purpose. That was 6 months ago.

I'm going to a friends birthday soon and she's gonna be there. 

Would it be bad for me to hold the grudge? Or should I just let it go.

Bear in mind, she avoided me whilst hanging out with others and then accuses me of avoiding her.
I don't wanna be a douche but I don't wanna be a pushover, someone who can call me whenever and I'll come running.

Please help Grapevine! 🙏🏻

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She's a big red flag. She's either manipulative or moody. We don't need these teasing and chasing games in 2024. 
  
 Move on

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She said no, I thought after I will get job (15LPA+) I will ask her out but turned out life doesn't go according to you.

Feeling lost, looks like I don't have the person with whom I used to share my daily life with. 

Suggestion please.

Counting on senior to help out this junior ♥️

Asked my girl best friend out,8 years of friendship from childhood.

You felt something,took a shot, didn't worked out, no worries, move on, someone else will come into your life.

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I am dating this girl for an arranged marriage setup, we have met multiple times(6-7 times) and almost all the time, i paid for it. She did not even attempt to pay or even ask for it. 

In another instance, she took me to a mud doll shop yesterday and I had no idea she was taking me there. She chose some mud doll which cost 2k and asked me to pay for it. 

It's really putting me off, is it normal or should I call it off???

Should I call it off??

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My bestfriend is going to the USA. She has gotten an admit to a very prestigious university for MS in CS. I have known her all my life and have had a crush for almost 15 years now. 

I never had the guts to say it to her because the timing was never convenient. We used to hangout together a lot. She was also in a relationship on and off with this guy. Maybe she did not see me as boyfriend material or I don't know. But I always wanted to be with her. 

I never looked at any other girl because I knew I liked her. So I waited and waited. Hoping that she would see me the way I saw her. She would love me the way I wanted to love her. But mard apni pasandeeda aurat ke lie kuch bhi kar sakta hai. So I decided not to confess my feelings to her. 

I did not want to jeopardise my friendship with her. But now that she is leaving for USA. I am scared we will not talk as much. Should I confess my feelings or let her go?

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Passenger: "You only miss the sun when it starts to snow. Only know you love her when you let her go" ❤️‍🩹

My bestfriend is going to the USA soon. Should I confess my feelings to her?

Dude, if she's going to the USA, it means she has evaluated her options and is leaving. Leaving you is a part of that deal. What will you gain by confessing your love. Will she stay back? No. Will she do a long distance relationship with you while she has the world open to her in the USA? Heck no. Tata bye bye, keep in touch, move on with YOUR life, just as she is moving on with hers.

I've been of the opinion that I don't want to marry and will enjoy life single. Turned 28 this year and for some reasons, my thoughts and perceptions changed and decided to give it a shot. 
Installed a matrimony app and didn't find much things happening there until I found a girl whom I thought I would give a try. I requested a match which got accepted very soon.
Fast forward, it's been 2 months since we whastapped each other. The only thing bothering me is that she's working in audit and says that she's too busy for texts, calls etc. And over the course of this 2 months period, we only managed to call each other thrice(including 1 video call). I had asked her to atleast try to call me but she's too busy/ not feeling well/ tired etc.
I really had feelings for her initially, but even after multiple attempts, she still keeps me waiting, I feel I'm slowly losing it and have reached a stage where i don't feel anything. 
What should I do?
P.S. we live in different time zones with a difference of 1.5 hours and by the time I'm back from gym, it'll be 11-11:30 pm her side. I try to have food and everything very quickly and make time for her everyday, only to be disappointed most days.
And most of her texts are scattered, with time gaps ranging from 10-16 hours at times. 
She tells me she's too exhausted and has no energy for anything but I am cent percent sure that she is using phone for insta, twitter etc even when my chats are waiting.

Should I still ask that girl out?

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