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by Gooner7

7 months ago

TMI but this girl I met wants me so bad that it is scaring me. HELPPPPPP

There is this really beautiful woman that I met in a club. We had a great time and ended up at her place. While leaving for my home next day I realised that she might have another man staying at her place. I logically deduced that it might be her brother or boyfriend. Any way she texted me in about a week that her boyfriend and her are interested in me being the unicorn in their relationship. 🦄 I dont know what that means so I looked it up online and realised what they mean. What do I even do here? I am really into her and I love her aura but this is scary. I don't want to end up in a situation with multiple people. Especially considering that I am a single woman who is new to this city.

salt

Gojek

7 months ago

I agree with @WiryDescent on this. This is actually scary and in the unicorn style polyamory the power dynamics are against you. Usually as a throuple it is way more egalitarian.

BruhJoy

InMobi

7 months ago

I have no idea what half these words even mean

Gooner7

Goldman Sachs

7 months ago

Ifkr. They are trying to use me.

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WiryDescent

Google

7 months ago

Having seen a friend in something like this, I recommend not to get into this for foll reasons - You are new to the city -it is hectic and scary to get into something this complicated Trust your gut instinct - if you are scared then there is a reason If you're into her then you can continue meeting her and then proceed with how it goes but ONLY HER. Not her partners. Set your boundaries straight. This is a messy situation because many at times people don't know what they want themselves. In that scenario, they will gang up on you.

Gooner7

Goldman Sachs

7 months ago

that is what I am worried about. them ganging up on me.

satan

Stealth

7 months ago

ok, ok hmm okayy unicorn whats that (lets google) fast forward…2x…. ur a gurl?? Firstly I don’t bdleive in idea that there are girls on GV. You identify as an apache helicopter! Secondly, listen to what others said…be safe!

Gooner7

Goldman Sachs

7 months ago

i am avoiding that couple now

DaringTrain

Stealth

a month ago

Apache Helicopter. I need context

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Sherlock007

TCS

7 months ago

1st world problems... Let this sink

TheChosenOne

Oracle

7 months ago

Crappy take, man. Live and let live.

Sherlock007

TCS

7 months ago

Same 2 u sir

BrisbaneBunny

Bollywood

7 months ago

Kept me hooked till the last line 😂

Sapthinker

Stealth

7 months ago

AIDS ka keeda ghus jayega bhai bachkey🤣multiple yaun partners

Gooner7

Goldman Sachs

7 months ago

Bhai nahi behen hu

Sapthinker

Stealth

7 months ago

Frostygig5

Stealth

7 months ago

Wait what

Gooner7

Goldman Sachs

7 months ago

yeah

Thomas_Shelby

Swiggy

7 months ago

I have so many questions after reading this post. Are you a story teller or it’s a real one?

Gooner7

Goldman Sachs

7 months ago

I am willing to answer the questions but you need to be more sympathetic to my situation rather than going for the story teller angle.

Thomas_Shelby

Swiggy

7 months ago

The intention was simply to check whether it's genuine or not. Often, posts like these turn out to be fake. In your situation, I would advise considering all the consequences before making any such decision. Having clarity with a sound mind is much better than regretting later for acting hastily.

DragonHunter

Stealth

7 months ago

Be careful in this. You can be taken advantage of.

Gooner7

Goldman Sachs

7 months ago

i am avoiding that couple now

majboormajdoor

Stealth

7 months ago

I would suggest to ask more questions and know. What if they are just together as a facade and not a real couple to just please their families. Kinda like the movie with Rajkumar Rao. Is their arrangement temporary?

Gooner7

Goldman Sachs

7 months ago

I’m not sure. I’m too spooked now. Now paying any heed to them anymore.

Thomas_Shelby

Swiggy

7 months ago

I would suggest to ask this question on Reddit. The reddit community is way more bigger and experienced than GV.

Rhombus

CARS24

7 months ago

Simple English, No Confusion - Avoid

Supreme_leader

Stealth

6 months ago

Koi naya update hai story me?

Ntaneja921

TCS

7 months ago

Simple answer ,the boy just wants to have fun ,and you are the scapegoat .just one advice - avoid and do not fall into this type of situations that are harmful to your social and mental health.and last be alert be safe

DaringTrain

Stealth

a month ago

Kamlesh

Stealth

7 months ago

Not a good setup. You like the woman but you might not like the man. Agreed with @salt as well.