A pair of jeans can go with any shirt or T-shirt and lasts longer than any other pants. Why would a person not prefer them?

Yes you are right but we are loosing men fashion as formal are going to be a luxury thing nowdays

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Formal exposes how fat you are loose shirt mei some damage control happens

Hahah vase maan ko tasalli dii jaa rahi han

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Boys are turning gays, that's why. And girls considering gays as boys.  Agree or die.

Fellas is it gay to have women being attracted to you

Well you're thinking a like a GenZ. 
 Gentlemen's code never die  
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Because India is hot and formals aren’t really needed I guess

I wear a tie to work, I'm the only person in my office who does that and people actually pointed and laughed at first lol 
  
 I do like loose fit pants a lot though, I think fashion is just cycling itself every four decades, wearing colorful and loose clothing is just getting more fashionable and common

Where do you work that anyone even considers wearing a tie?

Formal? No one should be wearing western formals unless they're in AC all the time including while traveling. The fact that it's normalized in this country with horrible climate is a scam.

How you describe it are we hating giving time to ourselves for dress Better. And choosing losse fit and jeans everyday

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TCS on their way to make a handkerchief pinned to the shirt mandatory.

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While power clothing is a thing, comfort is key, IMO. 
What according to you is the most ideal work place attire for the work you do?

What's the ideal work place attire?

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Dating has become the norm for relationships today, but many don't realize that it's a relatively recent development, prevalent in Western society for only about a century, and it's already causing societal issues.

Previously, Indian arranged marriages were standard (different from forced marriages). Families would arrange meetings between their daughters and another family's sons. If they liked each other, they would soon plan the wedding, marry, have sex, and start families.

Today, individuals are left to find their own partners. If you don't find someone in high school, university, or work, your chances of finding a partner diminish. There's also less incentive for marriage, as sex no longer requires marriage or even dating, leading to more people pursuing sex directly. This has created a skewed dynamic where fewer men pursue women due to competition, turning to porn instead, while women face exploitation by men who have abundant choices.

Ultimately, near 28-30 both genders rush to the arranged marriage system to get them a partner while having their feet dipped on dating apps.

In the US,
This has lead to decreased marriage rates and, consequently, lower birth rates since most births occur within marriages. A decline in families results in a decreased population, putting more pressure on younger generations to support an aging population. Western nations, therefore, rely heavily on immigration, causing additional challenges. Increased single motherhood also correlates with higher crime rates, drug use, loneliness, mental health issues, and suicides

P.S. I'm young and dating too. Just thoughts for a conversation on what the implications of dating for us as a society could be.

Dating has failed Americans, now it will fail Indians too

Your description of arranged marriages is incorrect. You are given the option that if they liked each other get got married - which was not the case in the last generation. Often times the meetings was just formality, and my own mother met father on the day of their engagement. So nope, they didn’t have the choice to see if they liked each other, their parents made that decision for them. 
  
 Now take that into today’s scenario, how many people in this generation will willingly marry someone their parents has chosen, without any say in it? None. Doesn’t matter what their income is. You yourself are dating.. why? You can ask your parents to find someone for you, if you believe their judgment. The issue is that we don’t, and people avoid admitting that cos they don’t wanna be seen as someone who disagrees with their parents. 
  
 People are free to do what they like, arrange, love, dating, single, unmarried, adoption with marriage. Literally their choice. Nothing is ruining anything, in fact the recent situation in our country, where there are no laws upheld for rich, unemployed where 40% IITians aren’t placed, religious division - are more of a concern than a person’s personal choice. My 2 cents 🙌🏻

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I’ve lost 15 kgs+ and I haven’t bought anything in last 2 years. Was saving up for the day I become fit. 

Now that I’ve, I’m going on a shopping spree. 

Suggest me. Not looking for anything high end, might lose some more weight.

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Hey folks I was looking to buy some good shirts and pants that I can wear both during weekends and some days at the office. 

What brands are your favorite and why do you love their aesthetic/quality?

Best brand for Weekend/Office casual clothes?

Get a girlfriend and she will figure out the rest for you ;)

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Is the temperature too hot that the office employee/ colleague can wear frocks to office???


Just curious.. Since I recently joined a company and that's what I had seen recently..

Hot?

Why is it that some men show too much interest in you for initial few weeks, like asking for ig and then ig messages. Seeing your stories just about the instant you post it. They tell you about their last break up they can't get over with but still tell you that falling in love is the most beautiful part of life and talk about wanting to settle down - until the time you show interests and hola! They suddenly change their verdicts - suddenly they're no more interested. Suddenly they get busy and don't respond to your messages anymore. 
My question to men, what do you seek from a woman when you are looking for some serious engagements. Whom should one trust with attachments?

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A lot of folks working at startups seem to be "passionate " about their job. Some of them possibly, truly are. Some foolishly reverse engineer this passion because they're paid really well and they've been doing a good job and it's good personal PR to say "passion".  A few reality checks.

1. Your cool Bangalore lifestyle is a result of investment risks/bets taken by VC's .

2. Your salary is as much about the market demand as it is about your " passion " and talent.

3. Startups will generally lower the bar for hiring processes to meet their demand for talent. Why need so much talent? Because the startup  needs to spend that 100M$ Series C that just made them a unicorn. That's how they convince the VC to give more money. "We are going to 2x revenue by 2xing our salesforce and buying 10M$ worth of Saas that will increase our productivity by 5x. " And boom ...100M$ transferred into you SVB bank account.

4. You are as replaceable as a garbage bag on your dustbin. The HR is probably flirting with 10 other like you over linkedin.


5. The "values" this startup apparently espouses are mostly nothing but a honey trap and positioning to lure talent.

It's great to have a nice tech job that pays well and allows you to gloat on twitter like a techbro but don't let it fool you into getting an inflated sense of entitlement. You're probably living on borrowed time....and money. :)

" Passionate " Startup folks

Instagram drives fomo have created epidemic of status driven consumption like ₹2500 for a one hour class of pottery, strawberry picking for Rs. 2000.

What happened to free activities like playing morning cricket or enjoying IPL finale with your best friends / family . 

Bangalore economy is running on fomo

Bangalore economy is running on fomo

Finally someone said it 🙏  
 Why is Staying at home looked down upon

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A few years back this trend came up on Blind, where people connected to each other over a thread and planned to meet outside the app, calling it a Blind date.

Why don't we start it here again?

Let's see if we can beat bumble and shaadi.com 😂

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Came across this startup called Blip that does 30 minute delivery for clothes. Who actually needs this?

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I see a lot of girls today have this condition of not staying with in-laws after marriage. I want to know the opinion of both genders on this. As I myself don’t understand what difference it makes. 🫠

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It is such a cringe question but one of my colleagues commented that my jeans look old and I should throw them out.

I bought them 7 years ago from Levi's and wear them almost everyday. Ofcourse, they are faded from the navy blue that they were to a more whitish blue and it is quite worn out. I thought it added to the appeal.

I mean I can throw them out right now( they only cost me 2.5k back then) but I wonder what is the lifecycle of jeans for most people here.

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