Why society judge so much when boys grow their hairs

Sorry if this question sounds offensive But yesterday made me realise ALL genders have faced this hair on body insecurity Women who get facial hair, men who don't

I have seen 5 post of the Bombae razor ad on this platform, and how people found it 'offensive' Ask yourself - if it wasn’t one of the thoughts when you saw her picture, apart from being happy for her achievement I am a woman, and I am ashamed that society made my mind think facial hair as abnormality. Class 10 to 12 are a hormone ruckus, that's where problems start, probably for men too The agency made money, don't attach too many emotions to ads. Last month someone 'died' to raise awareness

Are all y’all crying in your cars too?

Any body keeping short hair, like military cut or Ghazini style? Any cons? Pros are many imo ( less care; required, better care of follicle etc)

I always looked at her and felt she is so beautiful, charismatic, and had an infectious smile. Looking at her made me smile broo. Chapter 1 One day I decided to ask her out. I messaged her and our conversation grew then she spilled out that she also liked me a lot. And she was glad that I asked her out. Chapter 2 She had studied in an all girls school and she had a stereotype about boys that they are all stupid and bad. And girls and boys should never be together. I was fine because atleast she liked me 😂. One fine day she asked me to break up with my brosss. I asked her why? She said your friends are all playboys and I don't like the way they look at me. (Disclaimer: My bros are really nicest guys and I have known them since childhood they are the best gentlemen). We had an argument which didn't end on a good note. Chapter 3 I left to a new state for my Job. After I reached there she messaged me that we can't talk and we have to stop whatever we had. I got anxious and worried and spent my 5 months not being able to contact her. I got into depression. Then me being restless on my birthday I came back to my hometown. At exactly 11:59PM when my bday was going to end she messaged me "Happy Birthday". I was so happy to see her message. Chapter 4 We started talking and she said that she is leaving to Canada for her higher studies. I was happy for her but at the same time I was sad. I didn't want to see her go. We both cried and stayed on call till morning watching each other sleep. Chapter 5: She reached Canada and she completed her formalities and procedures. We talked for few more days but then eventually she started giving me hints that she is not interested. Then one day she abruptly messaged me and said we can't talk and we have to end everything. I cried the whole night, because there was no way for me to contact her and she had blocked me. Chapter 6: It has been 1 yr to that day. Somehow I have gone numb. I'm slowly forgetting her.

I have seen pseudo feminism happening everywhere around which has just wasted everyone’s time and energy over debating for false narratives. Does feminism really matter or it brought any change in corporate lives. If yes then why still pay parity exist and why projects have been given on the basis of gender but not on the basis of skill and experience? What’s your take on this ?

This is a rant post. Here is what is expected from a guy in India - Study well, go to a great college. - Get a high paying job. - Marry at the right time or else all your achievements are a waste. - Buy depreciating assets like car, houses etc - Have kids at the right time. - Give your kids the right upbringing. - Take care of your parents. - Be part of the society Whereas, for girls all of the above do apply but are good to have things and not a must have. If anything is missed from the above list, unfortunately society thinks you have not done the bare minimum. Now my question is who has all of this sorted considering at whatever point of life they are in.

I really don’t know why Indian society irrespective of state or religion, can’t grow up or become a little mature. If a guy smokes on the road, that’s fine. But if a girl does, immediately they will blame what has happened to this generation ( just to make it clear, I don’t support smoking but just expecting everyone has a choice to smoke or not) If a guy wears shorts or night clothes, and walks on the road, then that’s fine. But a woman wears shorts and goes outside, then people start staring as if she is not wearing anything. Even in this bad summer, they are expecting them to wear full pants!! I know this sounds cliched, but just wondering when will our society really accept. I know we are capable to accept a lot of modern things which were not acceptable in the past. Women can study and work now which was not a possible before. But still from western standards, women in India are yet to get the freedom to wear what they want, have habits like smoking or drinking ( their choice), date whom they like, decide when they want to have kids and a lot of other important things. Indian society will take a long time I guess. Any thoughts?

Thoughts?