Relationship advice

I can understand why you did what you did. Not sure what advice you are looking for though. If grapevine is the place you are looking to find someone, why not put yourself out here on who you are and what kind of person you are searching. Hopefully someone would come up along the way? Your username here is letsconnect. Why not embrace that and look beyond the married people in your vicinity? If you are looking at more advice on what to do(not in terms of grapevine), put yourself out in real world. There are many ways - 1. Dating apps If that's what you believe in or works for you 2. Common hobbies / passions 3. Work (though not recommended to do so) 4. Friends of friends 5. House parties (if you are into that) If you wait for the universe to send someone out to you, I know I have done that, it doesn't really work that way. I am not saying wherever you go you go with intention of meeting someone for relationship, but I am saying, widen your horizon of people you know and maybe you find someone with whom you wanna take it forward with?

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Life's good when you have someone to flirt. But Relationship: You don't have to force it since you talk,flirt, or vibe well. It should happen without you knowing.Just make good friends someone would fall for you before you do.

It’s a very similar story to mine. I’ve loved someone but then idk whether she loved me back or not, cuz we talked through social media after the school finished (of course we got disconnected for higher studies). I was in love with her since school days. 2 yrs ago she left me as in she blocked me and after that I also stopped looking for anyone. I just don’t have the energy to put lot of efforts and all again. I’m just done with all this things.

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If every guy around you is already married or about to get married then change your surroundings where you are surrounded by people with common interests

put yourself out, attend more events, travel more, meet as many people as people this way you grow yourself and hopefully you will click with someone

Stop waiting for universe to send you someone. Option a: try hard, date several guys, get heart broken a few times, build strength everytime all alone and move on. That's what most people are meant for. Option 2: keep waiting, be passionate and crazy. Invest in yourself and learn to be happy alone. There are no other options.

The right one will find you. Stay Single

I am just trying to make new friends at the workplace & outside to increase the surface area of finding someone whom you vibe with

Find good friends first. Relationship comes later. Need to learn how to be good friends before anything.

Date someone my friend ! Till you find the right one. Until you open your arms for the acceptance. You will be in the same dilemma. Just realise, spend time , get to know people. Every one will not be as good as you want but can be equal. Bdw which city ?

Hey, that's honestly really heartbreaking. Look this is something I've realised, you went out and got your heartbroken, you create those walls and never interact but crave a person, still sad. When you could be miserable, in the later for sure but there is a chance that you may find an amazing guy. I'm going through a heartbreak myself and believed I could never believe any guy. But last few months, that I have gone on this page and out, there are really great guys there, they just maybe a little introverted or shy or feel you would never approach them. Maybe instead of just putting all your heart out, just first get to know them, see their flaws and if you could deal with it. Tell them to be honest to you and try being friends first. It always works.