90's kid and still single?

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This post is for GenZ who have learnt minimal lessons on life so as a 90s kid, help mentioning 1-2 things that GenZ should follow. Please don’t write - Life is hard and blah blah. Tip: Advise could be from your grandparents or parents that is not available in books.

Hi I’m an above average looking and average height guy. I’ve been looking out for a serious relationship for years now and it really sucks. I mean career wise, I’m doing great. I’ve a stable career with a good car and my own house. Something that women consider for serious relationships turning into a marriage. I’m also very religious, super good at heart, loyal, caring basically too good to be true. I’m so loyal that I stop looking at other women even at talking stage. Send flowers randomly etc etc. Now the problem is, apparently if you don’t play mind and manipulation games, or basically be toxic, you won’t get a good partner. Every woman out there says she’s looking for 90s love and nice guys who care for her etc etc. Then why are people like me single? Not only me i know many men who are good at heart being played by such women. Why are you lying girls?

Us 90s kids lost an exciting part of our bachelor life due to COVID. feels like those 2-3 years are gone in vain. We were at the age of 25-27 yrs and started making good money. It was a good time for us to have a fun bachelor life..... and then COVID happened. Now, at 28-30, lots of us are getting hitched or already tied the knot. Got way more responsibilities now, and way less freedom. Sure, we can still have a good time, but that carefree bachelor vibe? Yeah, we kinda missed out on that. Anyone else feeling this? How do you deal with it?

I have been a little caught up with numerous things in my life lately and have finally found some free time to open up myself to new experiences. I had a wishlist of shows and movies that I wanted to watch but as soon as I start watching them, I get bored and feel like turning it off. No, its not the content No, its not the genre No, its not the actors No, its not the taste either This is pretty ironic as considering the fact that I have spent a fair share of my youth chasing academics and career, my heart had always craved for life experiences. I had to let go of the woman I loved simply because I was too focussed on my JEE. I wont be able to forgive myself for that EVER. It almost felt like I had lost a limb, without which , I would be rendered disfunctional. Thats a separate story tho. Nothing excites me (yep nothing) Nothing amuses me Nothing feels lively I have no clue where my life is headed I understand that as we age, our triggers of happiness change. I have put concious efforts into knowing what those new triggers are. But I cant find any plausible sources of happiness. I am performing pretty well with my career. Even got a double digit hike. But didnt feel that kick of joy. Have I approached a dead end?