SillyMuffin
SillyMuffin

Do you think you are special?

Since early childhood all I talked, watched and read was Technology. When I got home from school, I worked on C++ and built games by modelling physics, collisions etc. I frequented a ton of online forums for WebGL and other archaic tech that most of you don't even know about.

I knew all about the Silicon Valley, the stories and legends. I learned all about the history of technology and used to work deeply with my father with transistors, ECU/ECMs etc during weekends.

I thought I knew it all. I thought I was the deal. I remember schooling folks about all of this, making them realise they are dumb as hell. I remember when I stepped into my MS in CS program and attended a club meeting, I realized that I was just like everybody else.

They were all the same as me in hindsight. They knew the same things and lived and breathed the same passion. I knew I wasn't special. For the first time, I suffered ego-death. I thought I was special, and I was not.

This is just a reminder, that you are not special. You are less unique than you think you are. So lose that attitude.

12mo ago
TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato

In a nutshell, we're just mental labourers and we're paid more than physical labourers not because we're smarter, it is done in order to compensate for the compromised health (lowers your testosterone, fucks reward system of your brain, causes deficiency, anxiety, myopia, backpain).

TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato

I'm talking about an average software engineer

GigglyWaffle
GigglyWaffle

Wow, well written.

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys12mo

I agree on the attitude part.

I never had the attitude to begin with though. Have always undercut myself.
But I realise that's a problem as well. Would be fixing it this year

ZestySushi
ZestySushi
EY12mo

Batana bhai kya plan hai, even I have this issue

SillyMuffin
SillyMuffin
Cred12mo

How to fix this?

CosmicMochi
CosmicMochi
Swiggy12mo

Agreed on attitude bit. There is always a bigger fish and more competition to decimate you. Just learn and swim upward. A learning attitude is a must.

TwirlyJellybean
TwirlyJellybean

There is also diminishing returns. The kid who could play 3 instruments at 5 didn’t magically learn 30 instruments at 25. Or the super smart kid in maths didn’t end up as a millionaire.
Talent may not lead to wealth or happiness

TwirlyJellybean
TwirlyJellybean

There is also diminishing returns. The kid who could play 3 instruments at 5 didn’t magically learn 30 instruments at 25. Or the super smart kid in maths didn’t end up as a millionaire.
Talent may not lead to wealth or happiness

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

There will always be someone better than you out there. Doesn't mean you don't matter at all either.

Unless you work at cred, that company itself doesn't matter 😂

GoofyBoba
GoofyBoba
Cred12mo

He works at CRED. And even if you might think the company does not matter, you have something in your mind which still does not understand why you care about it so much.

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

Kehna kya chahte ho Bhai, couldn't understand what you mean to say

DizzyCoconut
DizzyCoconut

I used to rule the world
Seas would rise when I gave the word
Now in the morning, I sleep alone
Sweep the streets I used to own

  • Coldplay

Its part of life I feel. You are either a big fish in small pond or a small fish in a big pond at various phases.

SillyMuffin
SillyMuffin
Cred12mo

i feel that

FluffyNugget
FluffyNugget
Plivo12mo

Superiority complex 🫢

SillyMuffin
SillyMuffin
Cred12mo

you think I have?

FluffyNugget
FluffyNugget
Plivo12mo

Nah, just summarising

SqueakyDumpling
SqueakyDumpling
SAP12mo

I think this happens a lot with me too, I get that God complex and then someone fucks it up and I try to be better than them and again I go into god complex, regardless I'm just improving myself

SillyMuffin
SillyMuffin
Cred12mo

that is the Type-A personality

ZestyPretzel
ZestyPretzel
Practo12mo

Can't agree more.

JazzyWalrus
JazzyWalrus

This lesson or heads up should have come from your parents. You could have been in a smarter room when you were a kid. But your parents didn't realise that your ego is growing inflated. Now over the years you have built a mindset where you are used to being a special one but you also know that it's not the case. A day would come when someone publicly schools you in topics you are a noob, you won't be able to handle that. Bragging, even if a tiny bit, only makes other people jealous and they won't like that.

SillyMuffin
SillyMuffin
Cred12mo

hahahaha, seems like you are insecure

JazzyWalrus
JazzyWalrus

Quite the opposite.

Gif
SleepyRaccoon
SleepyRaccoon

Making them realise they are dumb as hell.

Well this explains a lot. I am sorry but I cannot respect anyone who makes other people feel dumb.

SillyMuffin
SillyMuffin
Cred12mo

ok

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