Folks making >5Lpm, how to live?

Basically want to know how you guys strategise and manage spending. Few questions to make this easier

1. Are you single/married? 1.5 Do you have impulsive spending issues?
2. What’s the spending + investment + necessities + savings split?
3. Are y’all targeting “FIRE” or just winging it?

Been making this much for a while now, married too, zero generational wealth. Somehow we’ve got very bad financial discipline and manage to save only under a lakh per month in Bangalore. Feel we should be doing better :/