GroovyBoba
GroovyBoba

From IIT to IIM to Forbes 30U30 to Burnout: My Hustle Culture Nightmare

29F, IIT & IIM grad. Thought I had it all figured out. Boy, was I wrong.

Post-grad, I went full-on hustle mode. Guru worship 24/7. Gary Vee, desi "entrepreneurs" on Insta - you name it, I followed. Their mantra? Work 20hrs, sleep 4, crush life. Sounded legit to my overachiever brain.

My life became a freakin' checklist:

  • 5AM wake-up: Check
  • Cold shower: Check
  • Meditation: Check
  • 12hr workday on my "revolutionary" startup: Check
  • Networking events instead of family time: Check
  • Endless online courses: Check

Rinse and repeat. Every. Single. Day.

Guilt was my constant companion. Watching a movie? Slacker. Attending a cousin's wedding? Waste of time. Celebrating Diwali? Think of all the work you could be doing!

The kicker? Being a woman in tech. Felt like I had to hustle 10x harder just to be taken seriously.

Result after 3 years of this madness?

  • Forbes 30U30 Asia: Check
  • Failed startup: Check
  • Nonexistent social life: Check
  • Chronic anxiety: Check

Guess what: All that hustling led to jack shit.

Now, at 29, I'm unlearning this toxic BS. Realizing success isn't about IIT tags, funding rounds, or how little you sleep. It's about actually living.

To all the desi kids killing themselves over JEE ranks and CAT scores: STOP. Your life is worth more than a percentile.

Success without happiness is worthless. Don't waste your 20s like I did, chasing someone else's definition of success.

Anyone else been through this hustle culture hellscape? How'd you break free?

4mo ago
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