How to make a living out of IT in Bangalore?

Hey I have been working in Automotive domain and getting like around 80k in-hand. But the work is very pathetic and not really helping me in growth . I am unable to make time to prepare for coding interviews. The thought of giving interviews has created a phobia in me. I apply for socmany roles and get rejected almost everywhere. Even if I get a call , the HR plays with and worn agree for higher budget or what I am expecting, they are ready to give barely 10%. I have to pay 25lakhs home loan who's emis is like 20k per month for my native home. Plus 15k room rent at Bangalore. Then groceries bills etc etc ...every month Expenses are exceeding my income. I am doing 15k investment that is the only thing that I am kind of like saving. I have like 4 lakh fd. That's all I have. I am 25 , and searching for a partner, I feel that the marriage occasion is unaffordable. Also I feel inferior because lot of the girls are expecting foreign settled boys. I feel like a complete failure . I am really passionate about music career and given performance at college . Offlate I haven't given much shows and I love performing...but I have a question whether I can make a living out of it or with that money is it possible for me to come out of debt and at the same time service all the expense ? I also dream of owning a car and a decent 2 bhk house with good parking space . How do I make all this possible? Currently I feel my performance is at an all time low and I feel something will go upside down in career. Also are there any other ways to earn good money other than corporate in Bangalore? Only thing I am good outside IT is making music playing piano music composition. The problem is I am also kind of shy and feel inferior when trying to approach people asking for any gigs or to socialise. I find it hard to get comfortable initially or to start that new connection.. but once I am in I feel very confident. I don't know what force is stopping me . Please help me.