BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

[Interview Exp] Why can't Women professionals be seen as basic humans

Context: I had put out a message seeking newer projects, and a certain person reached out. They have over 20+ yrs of exp and run their own boutique consultancy. The role they had envisioned fit perfectly that I was looking for.

Interview: We spoke over an hour, discussing the role, my top skills that would be beneficial, future prospects, where I see myself beyond work. Genuinely good conversation.

The person concludes the Interview and I quote "Now that I have met you, I can definitely say the pictures you have over your social media and website do not do justice to how you look. You have many photogenic angles that you should explore"

Shock was understatement

I steered the conversation towards how it is essential for my personal brand building and I have it in my consideration. (I believe I handled it well)

P.S. Anyone who supports this because it was just appreciating beauty - wrong place wrong time and also wrong person.

P.P.S. Time to get a photoshoot done!

6mo ago
BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

Happened in March, they obviously didn't come back with an offer 🤷‍♀️

Heston
Heston

I know women in my office who would have responded back with “haha you are so funny sir”

BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

They would mean 'he has a sick humour' but can't say loud because job Such a shitty situation

MarkZuckerberg
MarkZuckerberg
Meta6mo

Was the interviewer a boomer?

BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

Yes, must have been 50+

Kamlesh
Kamlesh

Yaar boomers sahi mein ajeeb hote hain. Not enough filters.

TheJargonCalledLife
TheJargonCalledLife

There's a line from Jaspreet Singh's special on Amazon - "Art chahe kitni bhi bda ho jaaye, tharak se niche hi rhega"

AptRiding
AptRiding

This is inappropriate Do not ever work with that person, and warn anyone against them if they're going to.

People should not have to face this at work.

DarlesChickens
DarlesChickens

Name and shame babu bhaiyya !!!! He ll learn his lesson . 😈😈😈😈

BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

Nah, don't want to stoop to his level

RHRN
RHRN
TCS6mo

Well it may help some innocents avoid this experience. Anyway your choice..

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