JumpyPancake
JumpyPancake

Intimate issues

Hi GV community,

Sharing a personal issue here but i trust this community số much that i hope i will get some good suggestions.

I have been dealing sexual health issues ( ED and PME ) , i am 26 years old, and it has put my relationship with my girlfriend almost to an end.

Earlier issues wasn’t even that severe like i was atleast getting hard morning erections and all but since couple of months even the morning erections have become rare and normal erecetions have become weak

I want to understand from GV community if anyone here or their known has dealt with this issue or have been able to fix it ?

Other details : Smoking - No Drinking - occasionally, not more than twice a month Physical activity- moderate, doesn’t hit gym regularly but do go out for walks and all

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SwirlyTaco
SwirlyTaco

Go visit a Doctor.

Advice from folks in here would be no better than visiting Baba Bangali.

TwirlyWalrus
TwirlyWalrus

Did you check out Allo health?

JumpyPancake
JumpyPancake
Amazon12mo

not exactly but have heard of its name, is it really helpful ?

TwirlyWalrus
TwirlyWalrus

Can't say with complete surity but I am connected to the founder, he claims to have solved it for a good chunk of people. I guess, nothing wrong in trying out! Also, these issues are more mental than physical, start thinking in that direction too

SnoozyQuokka
SnoozyQuokka
TCS12mo

You have to find the roots and address the issue. It could be anything from an addiction to a behaviour related problems like fear or anxiety abt that something. Try a counselling session with Therapist if need be. Before that Watch Jay stringer's video on Youtube he is a Therapist who helps address such concerns.

JumpyPancake
JumpyPancake
Amazon12mo

Thanks for the suggestion, have you personally
or anyone you know has faced this and was able to successfully overcome it ?

SnoozyQuokka
SnoozyQuokka
TCS12mo

Personally I haven't face any such. We are in a journey of helping couples and ppl overcome such situations with spiritual and counselling guidance. So we used to refer to his books and videos for learnings. Hence I suggested you.

BouncyCupcake
BouncyCupcake

Porn viewing habits ?

JumpyPancake
JumpyPancake
Amazon12mo

not an addict for sure

SnoozyQuokka
SnoozyQuokka
TCS12mo

Doesn't matter but this could be one of the reason or root cause. Watch Jay Stringer's youtube videos. You can relate to the issue and it will help you to overcome the problem.

PrancingBoba
PrancingBoba

It is a phase, returns.

Normally this might also be linked to some deep emotional block

Try to talk with your gf about this.

GigglyBurrito
GigglyBurrito
Javis12mo

Go gym bro, eat healthy food, replace bad habits with the better ones.

MagicalPanda
MagicalPanda

Any idea about kegel exercises? Are they really helpful?

SillyBiscuit
SillyBiscuit

Heard from doctor friends- Happens to many people. Go for doctor counselling , many a times psychological and stress related

BouncyBoba
BouncyBoba
Student12mo

What is your personal assesment about what led to these issues?

WobblyTaco
WobblyTaco
EY12mo

Include magnesium in your diet through food or medicine. Try patanjali shilajeet and ashwagandhaa as well.

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I think you should start having a mentality of “not giving a f*ck”. That’ll help you alot in life

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