I'm a 25yo guy, currently working as a software engineer, earlier I used to enjoy being alone but from sometime I think I need someone to talk to share my day with and listen to theirs.
I don't know whether to say this here or not, that I have never dated anyone before and don't believe in dating apps either, and not had much interaction with women as well, but I respect them in every possible way, and would like to have one as a good friend.
Please DM if you feel the same and would genuinely be interested in connecting as a friend. Thanks!.
Try to explore new hobbies. You’ll organically meet new people of similar interests.
Also, guy friends can meet your emotional needs as well if they’re mature enough
Yes but it's easier said than done, I have social anxiety which I developed after 12th standard, have a few friends but never had interactions with women, so thought that I should vent out what I feel and maybe someone with common interest may stop across.
Yes, would be open to connecting to guys as well if they want to talk. My post specifically doesn't target any one gender but yeah it may sound like I'm referring to only women.
I don't think as a man,you are allowed to share your emotions in this society. You can't trust anyone,if you do share your emotions or weakness people will look down on you.Unless they are family or seniors/mentors who you really trust.
I am 24 years old, and I am in the same boat as you. My most frustrating thing is over the weekend because I don’t get to connect with anyone or I don’t have anyone to love with. Sometimes I just want to end everything. Hope you find your reasoning soon 👍👍
Tum bhi ladka dhundh rahe ho
Nhi bro, ladki dhundh rha 😂😂, or if someone can give referral
You can share your day with some other guy also. Or are you looking for girls only?
Samjha karo babu bhaiya
Lol :)
be strong mentally !!! you dont need to talk everytime !! you can read , you can be a part of sports .
Damn kaise kar lete hain aap ye
we have to !! i learnt it ftom my parents !!! my parents suggested me to do so !! it worked nicely !! they advised me to avoid insta and fb strictly !!! and in the city i am working i have payable areas where you can be part of group games like tennis or cricket , volleyball etc where you can enter as an individual and play in group later !!! so i spend most of weekends in they play arenas like this !!! so find such hobbies or buy bike to ride long distance etc etc !! i am damn sure you will find happiness i am damn sure 🫡 i avoid partying , drinking , comparing others life with myself etc etc this will give confidence buddy
Start spending money on yourself instead. Then many girls will start talking to you as they can’t see a happy man spending time alone happily.
If you are into chess I can connect on chess.com and we can have a match now and then? Or if someone else here wants to challenge I am open for it as well. See you folks!
Hey, I really admire your honesty and vulnerability in sharing this. It's not always easy to open up about these things, and it shows a lot of self-awareness. I totally agree that having someone to talk to, to share your thoughts and experiences with, can make such a difference. It’s also great to hear that you value respect and meaningful connections. I’d love to chat and get to know each other better as friends, no pressure or expectations, just two people sharing their thoughts and experiences. If you’re still interested, feel free to reach out!
Genuine way of asking referrals, or best pick-up lines too..
Ok jokes apart, listen buddy, I have gone through ur phase of life, but it's ok, enjoy the things u like to do alone, join some clubs of reading, sports, drama, or any musical instrument etc. (Though u know any of it or not, but try them out) meet new people there.
And it's just a phase and you will get someone somewhere, have that faith in u very much right 👍
Thanks for your kind words!.
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