A couple of other posts are on what unmarried men / women look for in their potential spouses.
Married folks, based on your experience, what advice would you give people as they are going through the journey of figuring out the right partner.
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Whatever your criteria and method of figuring your partner, in a few months it doesn't matter.
Like a learned elder once said - Love marriage is suicide, arranged marriage is homicide. The end result is the same.
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It's very difficult to give generic advice as marriage is a very personal decision. I'll share some pointers based on my experience :
Spot on.
I think generally folks look at common interests but I have felt that more than commonality in interests, commonality in the value system is very critical. Once your levels of values are common then any kind of differences can be handled. You gotta notice these values in small everyday subtle things. How kind, honest, trustworthy, respectful someone is.
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