SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco

Question to people in their 30s, 40s and older

I'm a 26-year-old software engineer based in Bangalore, earning ₹25,000 per month after 3.5 years of experience. While my family isn't fully dependent on me at the moment, this situation is temporary (I'd prefer not to go into details).

I’m seeking advice from those in their 30s, 40s, or older.

Should I stick to a safe path by switching to a more stable job, or should I take a risk and try something different? Honestly, I’m scared to take risks because most of my past decisions haven’t worked out well, and I don’t have any significant achievements in my career so far. This lack of success has shaken my confidence.

That said, I still have a small belief in myself and my ability to make it work, but fear holds me back. With my family eventually becoming more dependent on me, and other responsibilities like my sister’s wedding coming up, I don’t have a lot of time to figure things out.

What does your experience say? How should I approach this situation?

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DancingRaccoon
DancingRaccoon

Hi, i used to work in tcs too, and leaving that comfort cushy job was the best decision i made. I switched to get a 40% hike, something which would have taken 4-5 years more staying at same place. Let me tell you the fact of 2024, no company cares about you and no company is risk free. Staying at the same company itself is the biggest risk to your career growth. You should be switching every 1-2 years for a better pay / better learning. I used to think the same like you, why take risk, what if new job is bad / toxic, I'd regret it.

But these are all negative thoughts, you should focus on positive side of life. Think that even if you get a bad job, you can always quit and find a better one. These decisions will build up your confidence too, and increase your decision making skills.

No decision is life threatening, just focus on your skills, and you'll always find a new job. The best time to switch is in your 20s

P.S. im still in my 20s

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

Just look for the best possible opportunities for yourself. Don't think about safe or risky, get options lined up first.

BubblyCupcake
BubblyCupcake

What do you mean by risks? How do you decide whether or not to take such risks? If you know that formula, did you try changing it?
If you don’t know how or what factors you are considering then are you just playing Russian Roulette with these decisions?

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