“You should get married on time”
To the married folks, would it be different if you would have married later in life? From a personal or objective POV, what’s your take
32+ M here and not yet married.
Got married at 26. If i get a time machine, will do it by 24. There is a quote by ashneer, where he says, 30's are the most important time is building one's career and setting the foundation to make money. Distractions from family life/kids will kill both the careers and family. I think he made perfect sense.
I think the older one gets, its difficult to have compatibility. Too many external stimulus corrupts our view of the society. And more over everything has a purpose and we all come with a shelf life. If chances of starting a family is slim or nil, whats the point in getting married? one is better of single.
happy for you man. Valid points
Good for you that marriage is working out. But statistically, people who got married earlier are the ones more likely to divorce compared to people who got married in their late 20s or early 30s.
It is ok to get married on time or getting married a little late or not marrying someone at all.
I have seen all sides of this coin.
But marrying someone with whom you can enjoy life and have compatibility is gold and rare. So waiting for that to happen is not bad.
To answer your question , It would be completely different for me as I am a guy having a lot of responsibilities and my wife is sharing half of that. I got married at 29 and now thinks that may be more sooner would have been better for me. So go ahead and see what's out there and if you don't want to marry at all then drop this idea.
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@VitalTeam did you marry that person with whom you can enjoy life and have compatibility? Was yours arranged or love?
If you are capable of staying alone I would highly recommend not to get married. To this day I regret marrying. Na Ghar main Shanti rehti Hain na mom ke saath. Zhund jindagi hain.
If you want to get married get married to girl who you love and known for many years instead of getting married in arranged set up.
Big red flag if girl is fan of big boss these types of girls are good for nothing
NOT NECESSARY TO GET MARRIED. IF YOU WANT KIDS BETTER ADOPT INSTEAD OF GETTING IN MESSS
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