SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

❤️🎎The post is a thread about why being "too nice" can negatively impact a man's chances with women. The key points include:

The Nice Guy Trap : Being overly agreeable and trying to win a woman's attention by being too nice can backfire. It often leads to being friend-zoned or overlooked because it reduces perceived attractiveness.

  1. Attention Isn't Free: Attention is valuable, and giving it away too easily (e.g., always responding instantly) decreases a man's perceived value. Men should be more mindful of how they give attention.

  2. The Authenticity Principle: Women prefer men who are genuine rather than those who just agree to avoid conflict or seek approval. Trying too hard to please can come off as inauthentic, reducing attraction.

#women #psychology

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JazzyNarwhal
JazzyNarwhal

You started with "too nice" and ended with "people pleaser"

Nice != People pleaser

SqueakyMochi
SqueakyMochi
TCS6mo

Such lessons are prescribed in Instagram & Whatsapp University Curriculum
There is big difference between reel & real life

This isn't applicable to all women, some women deserve & do appreciate early replies, it has nothing to do with self respect , attention etc

DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka

Exactly 💯 gentleman thoughts!

WigglyTaco
WigglyTaco

EY weirdos strike again

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