Win_me
Win_me
EY

❤️🎎The post is a thread about why being "too nice" can negatively impact a man's chances with women. The key points include:

The Nice Guy Trap : Being overly agreeable and trying to win a woman's attention by being too nice can backfire. It often leads to being friend-zoned or overlooked because it reduces perceived attractiveness.

  1. Attention Isn't Free: Attention is valuable, and giving it away too easily (e.g., always responding instantly) decreases a man's perceived value. Men should be more mindful of how they give attention.

  2. The Authenticity Principle: Women prefer men who are genuine rather than those who just agree to avoid conflict or seek approval. Trying too hard to please can come off as inauthentic, reducing attraction.

#women #psychology

2mo ago2.8K views
Paul
Paul
Startup2mo

You started with "too nice" and ended with "people pleaser"

Nice != People pleaser

DaringTrain
DaringTrain
Stealth2mo

The inherent assumption here is that no one is "too nice" and being "too nice" as a ploy to increase chances (chances of what? Relationship? Dating? Fucking? Over the clothes stuff?) with women can have negative ramifications.

  1. Kavi Pehle point (which has not been indented correctly) me kehna chahte hai ki: Being "too nice" to women is a trap. It reduces perceived attractiveness. So you should be rude to women. Kavi ne specify nhi kiya if rudeness is directly correlated with attractiveness of if there's a parabolic function with a local maxima.

  2. Kavi dusre point me kehna chhate hai ki attention isn't free and you should be "mindful" while giving attention to women. Don't respond to women's texts directly. Respond after... (kavi ne specify nhi kiya). Seen chhodne ka impact kavi ne specify nhi kiya. Call cut karne ka impact kavi ne specify nhi kiya.

  3. Kavi kehna chahte hai ki you should be genuine with women and not agree to their perspective just to avoid conflict. Agreeing with a woman's perspective will appear as "trying too hard to please", because of course genuine men argue with women.

Kafi apna post end karte hai do hash tags ke saath, forgetting that this is not their MRA twitter community where followers can search the hash tags and wag their tails in agreement with such profound thoughts.

#theend

Aragorn_urf_Maverick
Aragorn_urf_Maverick
Stealth2mo

Kavi TalkativeTiger hain…wo bina soche samjhe bolte hai

CloudWizard
CloudWizard
Stealth2mo

Such lessons are prescribed in Instagram & Whatsapp University Curriculum
There is big difference between reel & real life

This isn't applicable to all women, some women deserve & do appreciate early replies, it has nothing to do with self respect , attention etc

Bittergourd
Bittergourd
Stealth2mo

Exactly 💯 gentleman thoughts!

Yaassir
Yaassir
Student2mo

EY weirdos strike again

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