GigglyQuokka

Throw away your problems/rant anything here, I will give my suggestions!!

Throw away your problems/rant anything here in comments, I will give my suggestions!! Sounds fun let's do it. Anyone can give suggestions as well.

23d ago

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DizzyNoodle

Infosys22d

I got betrayed by a boy. He cheated me after 4years of love and now moving on to get marry to another girl which is decided by their parents. Im in a pathetic situation, my life stuck and i have been true to him for all these 4years and i never expected anything from, i loved him truly, i expected only love from him. But i could believe the fact that i got betrayed and used by him all these years. Now my mind is full of anger to punish him. Pour your suggestions how to punish him. Please dont say just move on without punishing him like that.

GigglyQuokka

PayTM22d

Hmm its a tough situation to be in but punishing someone is not in our hands, god will take care of it. I'm really sorry about what u had to go through, but many people are going through this thing nowadays and I hope u get a loving person in ur life so that u forget your past and that ungrateful person!.

PerkyWaffle

Stealth22d

As per my understanding you got two options.

become the best version of yourself and show him what he has lost
since he cheated, you can expose him to that gril. But yaa is that even worth it.

WobblyCupcake

Stealth23d

I am unable to find a decent girl to marry, love didn't happen and there is no scope in arranged marriage. I might end up single forever.

GigglyQuokka

PayTM22d

@DianaPrince here u go

GigglyQuokka

PayTM22d

You guys can see if something goes positively from here on ✌🏻

QuirkyPretzel

Deloitte22d

I am unable to find a good guy to marry😓

GigglyQuokka

PayTM22d

Hmm i see, in this post if some guy will comment anything similar will tag you along !

PrancingMuffin

WS Atkins22d

Why these IT people keep complaining about their struggles. You have so many people around you with similar routines, common subjects to talk about, great pays. Surprisingly both sides are struggling is beyond my understanding.

PerkyBiscuit

Info Edge22d

Decided to switch companies and move to Bangalore because of girlfriend, got multiple offers from NCR,none from Bangalore🥲. Paytm Bangalore decided to put the position I was selected for on hold.

Still looking: referrals are most welcome 🤗

GigglyQuokka

PayTM22d

I don't have a gf bro, so i think it balances out 😅

PerkyBiscuit

Info Edge22d

Apko Dahej milega 😂

GroovyMochi

Stealth23d

I am unable to get a good guy to marry 😥

GigglyQuokka

PayTM23d

It's because two guys can't marry lol

ZippyBurrito

IBM22d

Genuine question what do you look for in a guy?

GoofyBurrito

Student23d

@SoggyBasil4 you go first 👀

GigglyQuokka

PayTM22d

Hmm i don't have friends irl, none of my school friends replies me now and I'm not a very social person either, so yeah this was about me

PrancingJellybean

Swiggy22d

I have always been lucky enough to find good guys but somehow or the other, things go haywire. I don’t earn much but my family is affluent. I end up being with guys who will be head over heels for me in the beginning but eventually, marriage goes out of the table. Never found a guy who would just stay, no matter what, who would fight for me. I am just so tired talking to guys. Almost at the verge of giving up.

GigglyQuokka

PayTM22d

Hmm if any guy will comment on this post will tag u along!

PrancingMuffin

WS Atkins22d

A middle class boy with great ethics and values will stay away from such a proposal. A marriage should mostly be of equals. That includes family status. Usually, high earning man will prefer high earning girl and vice versa. But in your case, if your earnings match, your lifestyles would be very different. Its fair to assume, Your expenses would be much higher, you would have lead a comfortable life whereas the middle class guy might have a life full of hardships. Even if you decide to go ahead, its a lifestyle downgrade for you. So its upto you, whether you want sacrifice your comfort or look for a rich guy(earning or affluent). This opinion is based on my experience. I have been in this same situation multiple times, but when rationality hits, I say no to such prospects.

SquishyMuffin

Razorpay22d

I don't have any passion in life . I just do the job because I need money . Helps me get appreciation amongst My relatives and family also help them when in need which actually feels good . Just wanna save enough to retire asap and start doing nothing . I play computer games when free to kill time .

Want to travel without need to think of budget .

Married . Love her . About to have a baby .

Tc : 50lpa

Age 30 male

SquishyMuffin

Razorpay22d

Don't have any actual buddies whom I hang out regularly . As I am hesitant to call and keep in touch , kind of introvert

GigglyQuokka

PayTM22d

Brother if you want u can connect with me, I will be your buddy :)

PeppyNarwhal

Student22d

Coming from a tier - 3 college, it is difficult to find a good job in Software industry, no referrals, no connections help much, no matter how many applications, not many responses anyway. Everybody assumes because I'm a girl, everybody is waiting to hire me. All my tier - 1 friends getting good jobs is giving such a crazy fomo.