PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

Where to find him?

I am in search of a decent person/guy who is intelligent, understanding, trustworthy, caring and have a respect for women and most importantly he should not be a pervert. But I know nowadays it is difficult to find anyone with these qualities...but still my heart says....koi to hoga... kahin to hoga...

8mo ago
Talking product sense with Ridhi
9 min AI interview5 questions
Round 1 by Grapevine
SqueakyBurrito
SqueakyBurrito

It is difficult to find ladies who do not enquire about ctc/property /investments etc.

Itna sach nahi bolte Bhai.

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

Tbh dating mein no one really asks much beyond what job you do mostly. Not even how much you earn, unless it's a serious relationship. It's only in matrimony setups that this happens, and i really find it weird.

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

Every guy is secretly a pervert, those who say they aren't are lying. Our brains are wired like that, can't help it (unless someone is asexual).

Rest of the qualities are easy enough to find but you probably want them in someone who's attractive to you. Hence you should try dating/matrimonial apps.

Yup came here to say this. Every dude is a pervert. We are wired like that. Unless you are asexual or an 80 year old who can't get it up no more.

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

About the pervert... I meant to say he should not be a flirt and not only should look for a physical relationship...love and affection should not always be physically... there is another way to show the love

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

Hello Buddies, thanks for your replies and inputs,💐💐. Just wanted to clear the air... the Grapevine is not made for soulmate search... Hence, am not looking for a soulmate. I am looking for someone for a good friendship to share feelings and emotions and will see if everything works fine in future to continue with him or not and decide 😊

PerkyWaffle
PerkyWaffle

I can give you good friendship if you're looking for that.....but abhi usse zada capacity nahi hai, life already giving me harc time😔. Why this adulting is so hard😭

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

Sure ..done 👍

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

Careful, she is an HR 🙂

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

Ur Intelligent...I liked it 😎

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

Thanks but I am already kinda dating someone

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

well the reality is that:

you want spoon feeding, you don't want to put efforts

you just want to sit at home and expect th guy to just find you somehow

why I'm saying this ?

because I can bet you have ignored decent guys already because they weren't interesting enough for you

most guys are like the ones you mentioned, you are just living in your bubble and refusing to leave it to put efforts

PS: here "you" is not just you specifically, most girls and boys are like this

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

Hey...@samosa ... I think you did not understand the message correctly...you are thinking differently. Why so much hatred for women? I suggest you to go through the thread thoroughly to come to the conclusion

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

show me which part of my message exactly is the hate towards women

PrancingPancake
PrancingPancake

Even i can prove that

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

Give some examples

PrancingPancake
PrancingPancake

I genuinely care for ppl kind of social work if i see someone needs help.

FuzzyNarwhal
FuzzyNarwhal
HSBC8mo

I'd like to stand in this que with you 🫢

GoofyCupcake
GoofyCupcake

Hey check your dms ahahaha

FuzzyNarwhal
FuzzyNarwhal
HSBC8mo

Lol, no new DMs 😏

BouncyWalrus
BouncyWalrus
TCS8mo

@SometimesDiya - kaha hoga??

ZippyBoba
ZippyBoba
Student8mo

Fictional world mein 🤣

BouncyWalrus
BouncyWalrus
TCS8mo

@SometimesDiya - You mean accenture😉

WigglyWalrus
WigglyWalrus

Since you're an HR, LinkedIn premium is a good tool to narrow down your dream man. Go for it, give him an opportunity and a raise, and he'll be loyal (until he finds a better offer).

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

Are you sure you have any idea about LinkedIn and that also premium? FYI... linkedin is the social media only for working professionals...not for finding a dream man there....pls don't give your thoughts if you have not understood the thread here... maybe this discussion is not suitable for you

WigglyWalrus
WigglyWalrus

Have you ever tried funneling your choice as you do with candidates? Using location, statistics, stability of job, skills, recommendations, type of posts, and understanding how they operate. Hell, you can even predict his peerage with his high school, interest in sports and other things that people upload.

It's much truer than other apps. I'm giving you good advice coincidencing with your skillset and assumed skills in understanding a good candidate from not :)

WigglyCoconut
WigglyCoconut

Is this an invitation for Job or invitation for soulmate?

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

Haha... fYi...this site is not made for soulmate search... don't be so serious...am looking for someone with those qualities only for a good friendship...and share our thoughts and feelings....and based on the genuinity will see and decide for the future to continue with him or not

ZestyBagel
ZestyBagel

I am in lets connect and discuss

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