Marry a rich guy solves both the problems

Problem is rich guy will not marry you 😂

Corporate Strategist

Consultant

Founder

Mummy ko bol chill maaro...jab karna hoga kar lena...itna kahe ko load

Brand marketing manager

You fix one first and then fix one later.

Robotics engineer

personal belief is that always fix career first, dating life takes care of itself eventually. at the end of the day a girl looks for (financial) security over everything else. hard truth but true. and yes exceptions exist.

A woman is judged by her beauty. Man has to provide. It’s plain & simple

Machine Learning Engineer

Inside sales manager

People can. Key is not to have an impossible benchmark or high expectations.

Would rather have the best of both. Maybe that's high expectations

Your criteria for best is mimetic. (Is a degree of comparison, no two ways about it). So, you will never be satisfied no matter what, cos there is always something more you could have had. Seeing it as a utility function solves both career and dating, but not when you look at it as an optimization problem.

So true !!!!! What about those unfortunate folks  who dont have both 🤔

You have a job so unfortunately not unfortunate

My job is a job which no girl thinks as a proper job. So I can say with confidence with I too among the unfortunate unemployed folks 🥺

Software Engineer

Dil ko behlane ke liye Ghalib khayal achha hai 🤣

Product Manager

Focus on career ,, these days that’s what I valued by partners more..

It's definitely doable, but just like everything else, requires patience and forethought

Analyst 

Toh both ke chakkar me dono hi nahi fix ho rahe

You can do both 
  
 You need discipline to make both happen. Professional people are too disciplined when it comes to their career and not disciplined enough when it comes to their personal life. 
  
 Don’t be a corporate robot and a deadbeat at relationships.

It’s possible. I am living with my gf. And doing way better in my career that I expected

Product Designer

I think fixing the dating life and then career can work if you find the right person. Happened with me in my last relationship, I had my dating oqrt sorted, I just focused on my career and excelled to great lengths in it until things went down in dating life and then ultimately it affected my career as well (the only inevitable downside of my approach lol)

Software Developer

I believe it won’t be that hard if you know what needs to be prioritized when

Security engineer

@BiryaniEnthu करियर पर ध्यान दो

Growth Manager

[2AM thoughts] You cannot fix dating life and career at the same time

[2AM thoughts] You cannot fix dating life and career at the same time- Grapevine

Men who are 25 or older, please give a piece of advice in the comments section to the men who are 18-25.

Life Advice for Big 4

This is the first time I am gonna ask something related to my personal life on grapevine bczz i know my fellow GRAPEVINERS are either went through it , going through it or will gonna experience it . Nowadays the bars for Getting a compatible partner is so high that most of the relationships and marriages aren't even working out .

people who are well settled are even seperating from their partner due to many issues , i am just 22 but it's natural to crave for someone's presence in your life but seeing around the breaks ups and divorces are on a rise due to this busy life , hook up culture , hypergamy etc . It makes me worried that will i actually able to get someone good in my life , i know no one is perfect but what if I'll miss the opportunity to get someone good or what if any toxic person comes who will make life a hell. Many of my friends are in relationship and even those who aren't even sure about their lives and career and the first thing that comes in my mind after watching them is - "Arre iski bhi hai🙂" , 

Right now I am focused on my career but these thoughts strike in my mind from time to time

A compatible partner

Hello I am a 26 years old female who works in a IT company, but meanwhile I am stuck with my life neither my job nor my relationship is going well, I am actually not so "relationship" type i am kinda marriage type of person, ❤️ I love someone who is from middle class and I am ready to settle if he is earning 40k even but what matters is love and understanding of both of person,

Recently I am facing issues in my relationship like he is ready to leave me if the situation is not in future, and while I am not getting any future security from him i really feel anxious and getting panic attacks each day, I am not able to sleep properly 

Meanwhile, I am saying no to projects in my company and I am not showing any willingness to work further, honestly no body is there to guide me what should I do, my mom she supports me but I am unable to sleep properly in night and each and everyday I am crying and crying, not eating properly, i really need ur suggestion guys 

Please  if anyone can suggest me or anything i should know i will be very grateful.........

Need suggestion

Systems Engineer

Welcome to Business Roles's Private Community

Rumours that McKinsey year end bonus cut by 50%, can anyone confirm?

Guys, I am 22 and would be moving to bangalore in a few months for my first job. I haven't been in a relationship since 2 years and am not very good at my game right now.

Any dating tips for me? Please try to keep the roasting to the minimum 😂

Dating in Bangalore!

Hey Folks,
I’m in a phase where I have decided to move out from my present company. My present company is very dear to me as it gave me the taste of what success looks like. Honestly, I would have never made it had I not received the support and backing that I got here.

I don’t know if I am making the correct decision. Emotions are literally overflowing. One side of mine tells me that I am making the wrong decision whereas the other side is excited to see what future holds for me. 

Literally anxious of all the thoughts that are crossing my mind. What if , I am not able to perform at my next company ? What if , they decide to hire me and then not honour their offer letter ? What if, the company has a mass layoff and I am impacted ?

All these thoughts are literally eating me from inside. Any suggestions on how can I handle the same ?

How to handle emotions while switching companies

Finding Romance is gone 😂

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Alright everybody, let's have fun, choose your warrior 🤵🏻

Welcome to Indian Startups's Private Community

Your opinion matters, I want you(Yes, You!) to tell us about your view.

Would you choose to work at the top companies for the rest of your life in the same domain and continue to climb up the ranks? Maybe, you switch every 3-4 years to other top companies and have the perfect resume.

It looks something like: 
Google ➡️ Meta ➡️ Amazon ➡️ Microsoft ➡️ Uber ➡️ Netflix etc.

Or,

Do you go for the unconventional path which shows a life well lived and an interesting story?

Maybe, you worked for a few years as an SDE and then  joined a smaller company as an MLE. 

Then, maybe a few years down the line you decided to start your own company in the AI/ML space. You fail but it’s okay.

You decide to use this experience to become a consultant at a BigCo. to gather capital. Then, you exit and go run an entire vertical at a Series B+ Tech Company.

It may look something like this, but can have any variation: 
Niche#1(big co.) ➡️ Niche#1(small co.) ➡️ Experimental Bet(running a co.) ➡️ Leverage Experimental bet(if fails) ➡️ Senior Leadership

Here’s my question to you, the reader:
What do you think? 
Which approach would you prefer?
Do you think it sounds good here but real life is different?

What would you choose for your career: The Perfect Resume👩🏻‍💻 or An Amazing Story🚀?

The good, the bad and the ugly.
What has been your experience with online dating apps?

Share your online dating stories.

How do you manage to resolve conflicts between your mother and your wife?

Question for married men👇

Software Test- QA

Welcome to Software Engineers's Private Community

I writing my thoughts about me(26 years) , I am web developer with 3.5 years right working at Amazon as web developer contract employee ending in Dec , looking for full times roles to join right now , I from a petroleum engineering background (2019 passed out ) later learnt software engineer frontend mostly from my brother's help & through online resources built personal projected ,started career in 2020 by  joining a MNC as contractor developer worked there 4 months in 2020, then joined another startup their for 3 months , then 8 months at a startup , then 1 year 8 months at us startup but had a layoff in Feb , then joined Amazon contract through a referal( current  CTC 12LPA). Not sure where will I work next ? Sometimes I feel lost & have imposter sendrome like in close to 4 years what have I learnt & excelled?when will I earn more ?

But I have a many ambitious like built my own startup , write articles and earn, travel for treking , become fit, become a indie hacker , speak at conference internationally as well, work at top startups & innovate things?

 Not sure how to plan things & grow in my career ? Maybe 1 or 2years before marriage ? Not sure how I plan to have a stable job and grow in my career with better salary before marriage?

Not sure where I am heading, what will be my future?

When i was in college i wanted to build my own company/product. Thought of many ideas and tried to build something. None of them worked and it affected my studies so I had to quit just to clear my exams.

After college I took placements in a WITCH like company where I got put into data entry/operations job after clearing difficult coding interviews (kismat kharab?). 
Somehow learnt new technologies on the side and managed to switch to a development role at a lower salary in a startup.

After 3 years Worked hard on DSA and (barely) managed to get a good offer with above average pay. But the company is not stable anymore and may layoff at any time. 
Right now struggling to learn enough DSA to crack any company.
Now I am almost 30, i have no hobbies,no talents, no relationships just trying to have a stable career.

I see people everywhere doing so many things at once. How do they manage to do this.
They are working at FAANG and managing businesses at the same time, have a bunch of friends.
What am I doing wrong?

Just a long rant about life

Hey everyone, 

I am a fresher out of college and I have an offer from a good company, with good pay and WLB. I was wondering that after joining the company, should I upskill myself continuously alongside my job (includes DSA, s
System Design etc) or just focus on my job and have a good work life balance? 

There are two different contradictory versions of me right now: one says it's necessary to upskill, the other one says to enjoy live to the fullest.

Confused between the need for upskilling and WLB

How did your personal life affect your professional life ? Share your positive/ negative experiences.

Hi all, 
I am a software engineer in a * company. But here the point is about myself, i don't like to code at all, infect i hate it now, but still i am doing it , because i have no choice, i can't leave it nor my family will be  supportive about it. I know its the best work in today's time but not for me. I also got promoted and been on a good pay (acc to exp). But i just don't want to do this job at all. My brain is affecting to a large extent , i have been hiding it from my family. I have a lot of headaches and tension of work like how am i going to do this. Because of having no interest in this, i am not improving my knowledge in this field, which have created fear about switching jobs. I forgets concepts , but i am able to work , don't know how, but i am afraid how long will i survive. My life is ahead me, many responsibilities lying ahead, but also i dont want to do this. What should i do ? Please help me , i can see only one option and that the very last option.

Coding...

What's the one thing you had wanted to change / start / stop doing this year - call it resolution at the beginning of the year? How are you doing on that? 

I wanted to get into a better rhythm on fitness and sustain the good eating habits from last year. 

Where am I? 

After a wasted JFM quarter, did somewhat okay in Apr, May and June. July has been not too bad. Baby steps: trying to get 3-4 hours in a week for fitness. I have realised habit formation is a function of stacking. When I workout on Saturday, I want to go to the gym on Sunday too and then on Monday and Tuesday and so on.. When I miss 2 days in a row, then I degrade to saying okay, let's start on Sunday - as a fresh week. Trying to break out of that and convincing myself today is as good as Sunday. :P Definitely improved, but a long way to go.

Would love to know about others here on and hope to get more inspiration. 

As they say, one day at a time. So do you want to wait till Jan'24? :)

7 months in, how are we doing on resolutions for the year?

Growth manager

Hi everyone, just wanted to ask something idk if you get it or not but things are hard on me lately ...i am an it professional with good 2.5 yoe but I feel like i belong in management side of world not here and for that i want to pursue MBA and that's my interest i want to make career switch but lately at my home my marriage discussion has began...i am going to be 26 in july and everyone think i am already little late (yes, that's the reality According to them) i told them about my aspirations they said do it after the wedding...and i am hell confused what should i do because I don't want to be in it (less salary and hectic work in which i have no interest) ...and idk what kinda person i am gonna meet in wedding setup ...even i will be able to pursue it or not ....tell me how you deal with it...any suggestions will be helpful.

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