Hello I am a 26 years old female who works in a IT company, but meanwhile I am stuck with my life neither my job nor my relationship is going well, I am actually not so "relationship" type i am kinda marriage type of person, ❤️ I love someone who is from middle class and I am ready to settle if he is earning 40k even but what matters is love and understanding of both of person,
Recently I am facing issues in my relationship like he is ready to leave me if the situation is not in future, and while I am not getting any future security from him i really feel anxious and getting panic attacks each day, I am not able to sleep properly
Meanwhile, I am saying no to projects in my company and I am not showing any willingness to work further, honestly no body is there to guide me what should I do, my mom she supports me but I am unable to sleep properly in night and each and everyday I am crying and crying, not eating properly, i really need ur suggestion guys
Please if anyone can suggest me or anything i should know i will be very grateful.........
See issues in first and second para I can help you with trauma bonding, we can rant about our whole day together but yaa it will cost you can DM mee😅.....
But issue addressed in 3rd para made me curious why you saying no to work, I can understand no one was there to guide same happened with me as well.....but I was like full besharam type and ask things again and again. See the thing is in corporate that understand in past 2 years that no one, literally no one will compromise their work just to help someone. So ask for help blatantly. Don't fuc* your career yaar......
More power to you.....🙂
Hey dude, first of all I hope things get better for you very soon and I don’t know the full story so will be answering from your POV.
Don’t fuck up your career because of some person who isn’t even sure about you. I know it’s easier said than done, but some day in future you will regret this.
Prioritise yourself, I know relationships takes a lot of efforts, but sometimes you are putting up efforts where the other person doesn’t even deserves that.
Love makes us do stuff that our brain will never, so have a serious conversation with your guy, ask him if he is willing to commit and go all the way, if not move on.
Thanks a lot for your suggestions ☺️☺️☺️ really.....
Welcome to the Club Woman!
You are ready to settle if he is earning 40k ?? what if he doesnt get that much then???
the other thing you said is -"He is ready to leave me if the situation is not in future ?" Does that mean that person is also looking for a serious relationship ??? than what actually is the probelm ?? that not earning 40k a month??
Actually to make this clear, I am ready to marry even if he is earning 40k in a month, but he is not ready accept me as of now as a wife and he is ready to leave me if situation is not good in future.....
Go to gym all problems will be solved
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