How do I propose?
She is the one. I have bought the perfect ring But I can't find the perfect way to propose. She likes the rains of bangalore. Likes flowers. Doesn't like flashy stuff but would love it if I record the moment. I was thinking of proposing her on our chai spot while or after it has just rained and ask the chaiwala to record it. But up for more ideas. Help Grapevine.
Dude are you kidding me>?
Take her out to a fancy dinner or vacation. Make that moment special and not ordinary. It will only come once.
If I were you, I would have kissed her on top of a mountain and proposed to her against a scenic valley.
BiryaniEnthu
Stealth
4 months ago
I want to see the ring tbh 🤩
Umm chai proposal is too casual ... suggest you to go somewhere around river or hills in rainy weather (weather forecast rocks) .
Whatever you do, all the best. This was such a wholesome post to read!
First are you sure she will say yes? Don’t end up like this guy —> https://www.reddit.com/r/funnyIndia/comments/1agycig/she_rejected_his_proposal_in_front_of_whole_school
Dooood, Chai place and chai wala being your cameraman is too cheap, bro. Thats not how you tell your kids. Go for a long ride to Yercaud, those scenic routes and you both in a bike would definitely create some more romantic moments. Propose her among one of the scenic view. She would love it. Then have a chai, dammit.
She will. She has lowkey asked me when am I going to propose already. And this school is too much...I'd rather do it with just the two of us in the frame.
Dihaadi
Stealth
4 months ago
There isn’t a “perfect” way to propose, the proposal in itself is special. Cherish it, remember it. A few ideas -
If you’re in Bangalore, take her out for an early morning Cubbon Park visit on a drizzly morning. Propose and have chai near Lalbagh. Lalbagh has great flower shops outside as well.
Or go to nearby places like Yercaud, Coorg , Chikmagalur, book a nice expensive place, walk down coffee / tea plantations when it’s drizzling and pop the question. All the best ❤️
Don't get influenced by what people will post here. This is something that's strictly within you and your partner. It's your gamble on what she likes and doesn't. I personally do feel that proposal is just one of those steps in the road, it doesn't have to perfect or grand. If you're truly interested in spending your lifetime together, every day, every trip and every date with her is equally interesting as a proposal
vOid
Student
4 months ago
Be yourself the moment itself is going to be too special that you don't need anything else. Few days after proposing her. Give referral to me.
@HardAirship, I suggest you take her to someplace of emotional importance to her.
If you're having a hard time. Candles brewery is also a stunning place you take her and officially ask her to Marry you.
My take is bit different, thinking a whole wide range of scenarios.
Please don’t do it in a very crowded space, it’s very noisy everywhere as it is. You have to consider for scenarios where she doesn’t say “YES” explicitly but it is also NOT a “NO”, it could be some complicated answer too. So it should not make your ride back awkward. These are like worst case scenarios but you should think off it for your sake.(I hope she says YES)
Also, did she ever mention something about getting married, when to get married, what type of rings she like or the cut of stone she likes. These could be the hints she might give you so recall them before buying the ring.
Also, how close you are to her friends and family? Maybe ask them, as women in her friends and family, they might know better about these things and what she likes. But also to make sure to break the news to someone who won’t blabber to her before you pop the question.
You can do some spying work like ask a female friend to beat around the bush in this context, women generally talk to each other about this stuff and if she is good then it would remain a surprise till the end.
This is my 2cents, or maybe how I would think about it. You know yourself and her better.
Good luck🤞
PS: we need an update after you pop the question😅
Take her to a famous flower garden, check the weather, propose to her between fresh flower lanes while it rains 🌧️ 🌺
Tbh, our chai place is a shell filling station. And I imagined it more like 'the office' Jim-Pam proposal kinda vibe.
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