Weekend Lonilness

Not sure if anyone feels completely exhausted during the weekends. My energy levels are decent during the week but come weekends and my energy levels crash. Apart from talking to friends, I have little energy to do anything else like reading a book, working on a side-project, etc. Wanted to know if anyone else feels the same way. And if someone has been able to reverse this and have more energy on weekends.

Especially in a city like Bangalore where you spend 5 days in office Clubbing is not an option every weekend, considering how expensive clubs are and how antisocial I am What can we do apart from scrolling phone Or binging content indefinitely? Suggest some options I tried those meetups and board games night. They are not as exciting after first few rounds #Bangalore #5daysOffice

Looking back at our college days, I remember how close we were. We used to think our friendship would last forever not only friends but cousins too, but things have changed. No one keeps in touch anymore. The friends I used to fart with are now distant, and when we do talk, it's only after months. It's frustrating. We're doing well financially, but our relationships are suffering. Whether it's because of work pressure or being tied to the office, we can't visit our hometowns as often as we'd like. On weekends, I find myself drinking alone, scrolling through old photos and videos of friends and family with some songs playing, and crying. Life goes on...! Monday comes restart....! I just wanted to share the feelings so i did :)

I always think of studying or building that one project over the weekend or complete that one chore which is pending from past 2 years! But fail everytime, I don't even move on weekends i don't like going anywhere I don't even like house full of people I just want quite time in weekends but unfortunately don't get it so I feel like I have not relaxed properly and this makes me think I deserve to be lazy all because of this have not studied from a long time so much so that I am almost back to being a noob on my skills its so freakin heart breaking where I have landed myself and I repeatedly do this every week! I can't even focus on one thing. Even if I quit social media and get serious it's just for 2-3 days max after that I am back to the procrastination den. Please guide, seriously need advice and steps that can be helpful to overcome this.

I wait all week for weekend, then realize I just didn't have enough fun on the weekend. What makes a good weekend? How can I make sure that this Monday I go to office feeling like I had a nice weekend. Give suggestions please 🙏

I am someone who doesn't go out too much. What do you do and how do you guys spend your life in bangalore?

Have you felt that the conversations with your work buddies and away from office buddies are not that fulfilling? Like you might be passionate about so many stuffs but you just don’t have that passion in anyone around you and you end up being yourself, overtime becoming very lonely while still consuming content at high pace. Do you feel lonely? If yes how are you dealing it?

In the Blr since a month, in the Marathalli area. Not any friends nearby. First time out of home town. Not any friends in the company as well, mostly I sit alone just casual hi hellos. Don't drink or party hence just stuck in PG. I want to network with people and find interesting startups. Can even start doing something on the side. Let's connect if you are around ? What other ways you guys connect to people / make friends after getting into corporate !!