I am in Bangalore and i am feeling sad and lonely here . Don't know anyone here still looking for friends to go out and i don't wanna go out alone ..it feels weird to me.

Software Engineer

Do not depend on anyone for your happiness. This statement is easy to type on my phone but when shit hits to roof in your head - very hard. You need to change your mindset deep within with action. Read about stoicism / do meditation and take care of your body - go  gymming.

Analyst

Busy yourself with some activity, bro. And don’t get too attached to others lifestyles. Go hit the gym; change something in your daily activities. If you earn enough, go on trips or shift to some Tier 2 cities for fun.

Security Analyst

Shift to a location which resonates with your vibes. Goa if you are beachy or manali if you are into you know. Or pondicherry. Or any other place of your liking. 
  
 Dont sulk, figure out what you want and get it. For clearer mind and thinking do walks/runs/yoga. You will get some perspective. The answer lies within yourself

Program Manager

Something which helped me was learning some breathing techniques like Sudarshan Kriya and Meditation. It calms you down and helps you to connect with other people from different locations too. You can try an Online Meditation & Breath Workshop by Art of Living where they teach you this in a group. I have been practicing it and it helps me a lot. So, give it a try. You can visit this link to know more details https://linktr.ee/i_am_a_sadhak

Hey, kudos for voicing this. You’re not alone, and you have support. 
 I’ve faced this too, I’ve been living on my own for two years now and I was initially working remotely with very few friends in the city. Wasn’t even in touch with family. 
 Recently I moved to a PG and it used to get hell in hybrid. I moved to a flat and changed my job to a role where I get to talk more to people. 
 Our jobs make us zombies in front of the system. We are slaves of technology. I can only ask you to move to a place with more people. Take some more effort to talk because that’s very important for fostering social bonds. And that’s the key to health. Therapists are just friends who you pay for rants. The next step is always medicine, I’ve been in therapy for two years too. Now my therapy is just Netflix and chill when I feel introverted and lots of talking when I feel extroverted and happy. Join a gym or class, it will break your inhibitions.

Content Strategist

Get up and go to the gym. Sometimes we miss the simplest things in life. Burn all the excess energy. Lower excess energy translates to less overthinking.

Chief Business Officer

Dude try a solo trip once😉. 
 Maybe initially it will be difficult and awkward for you but at least give it a try. I am sure it will work for most people.

Data Analyst

Can you please share the name of your company if you don't mind?

Hi guys, I just graduated and started working. My office doesn't really have an inoffice work culture, so I usually go to the office once in a while. The rest of the days I work from home. I live a...

Hi guys, I just graduated and started working. My office doesn't really have an in-office work culture, so I usually go to the office once in a while. The rest of the days I work from home.
I live at home, and I agree that staying with your family brings in a lot of comfort. But the place where I live is a small town. I don't have friends here, and my social life has become almost zero.
I feel like I have no one to talk to, my college friends on the other hand have moved to metro cities for their jobs, living with their friends. I see them enjoying every weekend which makes me feel bad as I don't have any friends here.
Even my college friends have stopped talking to me. At times, I feel very lonely and sad. I have also been seeing a therapist for a while now.
Could someone please help me with any advice/suggestions. I'm in dire need of advice/ perspective and have no one to talk to.

Feeling sad and lonely

Product Manager

Feeling sad and lonely- Grapevine

So today I gave my final exam of my engineering and within a blink the journey of 4 amazing years came to an end. It feels like it was just yesterday when I took admission in college. 

Now I am doing an wfh internship and I am feeling like I will be lonely, since I don't have any friends apart from college (which I am pretty sure there are less chances of meeting as I had lot of friend but I was close to none🙂). Earlier I used to go to college and I was kinda a known personality, but now as it is ended so no more going to college and thought of working from home all day is making me anxious and depressed. So want advice from you guys about what should I do, how did you tackled this phase? I know I might sound cringe and sorry for that, but I am writing this just for help and advice.

Gave my final exam and have mix feelings

After working remotely as an Intern, I cracked a SDE role and moved to this new city. I feel homesickness now. I feel like running away from every single thing here. Everything reminds me of my family. I don't have much work experience but I'm trying to continue to work here and looking to crack another role in SDE but remote. 

This way I can stay with my family as well.

I don't know, I feel lost. This city is costly and spending so much in the initial month just to settle down was overwhelming and traumatizing.

Homesickness is eating me up. Planning to switch to Remote work.

Software Developer

Hi
In final year right now of my BE
My entire college life 
I am feeling left out
No friends, 
If I need something I ask my classmates
It feels odd
It feels week
Why as a MAN I am feeling such emotions

Even accepting the fact myself that path further ahead will be like this only
But still in mind, somewhere
I believe if I had someone to talk to
Someone to share everything I have
It would have been better
Yet again weak thoughts

How as MALE adults you overcome
Or you don't give a f*ck about it
More like "hey, I don't even have time to feel shit"

Pls throw some light on these thoughts
I am open to every discussion

Is feeling lonely, as a MAN, OK?

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hi guys,
I feel so lonely these days , I feel no one is there to talk with me 
I have so many "friends" 
everyone is busy in their life 
I feel I need someone to talk at anytime, can share my thoughts.
any solutions?

mental health

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Have you felt that the conversations with your work buddies and away from office buddies are not that fulfilling? Like you might be passionate about so many stuffs but you just don’t have that passion in anyone around you and you end up being yourself, overtime becoming very lonely while still consuming content at high pace. 

Do you feel lonely? If yes how are you dealing it?

How do you deal with loneliness?

Growth Manager

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I am 23M working in a well renowned Fintech startup. Have got what I have dreamed of in college like high ownership, good pay and other similar things. But lately realized that I can't do these things for my majority of life. Although I enjoy my work but still feeling lonely and aimless.

Previous to September it was remote but now they have made it hybrid and I have to reallocate to Gurgaon and now I am feeling more lonely and aimless in life.

Have tried travelling and other stuffs inorder to find interest in life but nothing excites me.

What to do in life? Feeling aimless

I have been on a permanent wfh role since covid. Yes, been 2+ years since I stepped into an office. I stay alone and have little expenses but also 0 social life. Friends are all spread out. Not on any dating app because its exhausting. Can someone just talk about any impacts on their personal life from work life? Does anyone here feel a void too? I’d love to connect.

WFH = 0 Social Life

I have been working remotely and honestly, I don't want to go to office ever (at least that's what I feel right now) 
  
 I don't want to become besties with my coworkers, and I stay with family so I'm very happy spending all my time with my favourite people in the world! I also have the option of traveling and have decided to take an out of Delhi trip every 2 months at least 
  
 I might be biased, because my parents and immediate family are professionals as well and have home offices, so all my life, I've had the kind of atmosphere where offices don't play a huge role, so I'm happy! 
  
 But yes, I suppose I do get the socialising aspect, it becomes harder to make friends as one grows older, especially when all your school/college friends have office jobs 🙃🙃

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Is it okay to be alone rather than being with guys I don't like. 

College friends are the worst I have ever had.

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I've been working for just over a year after graduating from college. I'm pretty happy with my prof life but I feel a sense of being lost and purposeless. After wrapping up things related to work I don't feel the motivation to do anything else. I've been staying in a new city where I hardly know anyone. What do I do?

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Hi folks, 

I wanted to know how you tackle this feeling of loneliness and being lost in the city. When you have no one to talk with and always being homesick.

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