My first ex was taller than me lol, have seen a few others as well but pretty rare

Senior Data Scientist

Impossible, 
  
 Initially tall girls might assume short guys like cute but gradually when other requirements of relationship open, they must change and move to comparatively taller ones. 
  
 But opposite is very common. Mostly all guys have comparatively smaller GFs and few have very short girls. 
 Mine too…

Generalist

Why is tall girl and short dude not okay but tall dude and short girl is okay.

Senior software engineer

Founder

I’m curious to know the same for rich girl and poor boy

Product Designer

Product Owner

Software Engineer

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Have you ever come across a "tall girl and a short guy" couple ?

Have you ever come across a "tall girl and a short guy" couple ?- Grapevine

Searching for my lobster since fckin 5yrs and no results!

-Tried through contacts, turned down
- Shaadi/Jeevansathi : No one is serious and the more options I get the more end up confused. Likewise for the other side.

Although in online I get plethora of options,I end up wasting time and money.

95% of the matches are doing window shopping.

This is way way harder then getting into FAANG.

Some stats of me:

Height:6'2
Age:33
Diet: Vegetarian/Teetotaler

Btw feel free to reach out to me here also  😂

Betterhalf search

Technical lead

Nowadays most of the girls/women are preferring the men with height of 6ft , what's your intake over 6ft height becoming the new norm in a country like India (thanks to social media), what's your intake on that and what can be the perfect height for men below 6ft and far away from delusion

Height obsession

Meet-Cute: A charming *first encounter* with someone that leads to development of a romantic relationship. 

Please share your stories ❣️

Have you ever had a 'meet-cute' experience?

Sharing the context for this question - 
Indian society does not accept (easily), and it may pressure families with only ONE SON (single child or one among sisters) , because he bears the onus of continuing the lineage.

Are there any couples (or you know of someone), who chose to be different?

P.S. The question is only for serious DINK couples who are not considering kids. 
You are not DINK, if you "may plan in the future" or "let's see how it goes"

Ques to DINK couple/husband - Are you the only SON (single child or sisters) in family?

Consultant

There are two types of people and they marry each other!

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Had never told him, was never gonna get married to him anyway (different religion)
Just that his wife isn't as hot as him, kinda let down 🫠

My ex-Office crush got married, why am I sad though 😢

Alright everybody, let's have fun, choose your warrior 🤵🏻

She hasn’t seen the CTC Megathreads in grapevine yet. All these guys will get dumped.

Ps: Saw this question earlier today on a different thread.

Have you ever hooked up with someone?

Product Manager

I've seen a bunch of posts over the last month asking for tips on optimising profiles on Tinder / Bumble / Hinge to get to date / casual relationships / serious engagements.

Have people completely stopped relying on just walking up to people / meeting someone in person, asking them out and taking it from there? 

It's slow and requires effort but works better.  Zero chance of being catfished.  You can control the narrative and pace. 

Whats with being handicapped by the app?

Dating App Handic-app

Sales manager

Share yours,

Sharing one of my female friend’s story :

The guy had uploaded backdated pictures (3 yrs) of his on matrimonial site profile, they talked and everything, went to meet the guy along with parents.

Situation : The guy was completely bald when compared to the photos he had uploaded, had also not shared any recent pics on WhatsApp chat (even after asking multiple times) citing reasons that he was very busy with work and all. 
Needless to say my friend was taken aback.

Verdict : Rejected on account of being dishonest (not bald). 

P.S. : My friend has dated bald guys in her past.

I am not a storyteller so had to use clear indications of situation and verdict.

Matrimonial sites awkward stories

Corporate Strategist

ever happened to you? 😭

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Promotions in government jobs also have reservation so your batchmates becomes your boss in 6 years. My cousin was denied promotion at a PSU due to a reservation union lobbying to grab even more promotions than allocated.

There is no solution in sight for the reservation problem.

Discrimination against general category at all-time high

Software Developer

I don't know whether this is the right platform to post. I find myself in a unique situation where I am seeking for a companionship with a man who identifies as gay but has a straight appearance or someone who is asexual. I'm a techie and I am specifically looking for a partner who is in Bengaluru. It is important to me that this person does not have any plans for biological parenthood, as I am seeking a relationship that allows us to prioritize our individual goals and aspirations. But I'm okay with adoption or surrogacy in case the person wants to have a baby.

I am a confident and independent individual who values authenticity and open communication. I believe that this kind of arrangement can provide both parties with stability and support while allowing us to maintain our personal identities and freedom. Mutual respect and understanding are crucial elements for me in navigating this journey.

If you are a man who aligns with the qualities I am seeking and are interested in exploring the possibility of a companionship, I would be open to connecting and discussing our compatibility further. Let’s embark on this journey together with honesty, understanding, and a shared vision for our individual happiness and fulfilment.Please mail me at truecompanionship24@gmail.com if you want to connect further.

P.S: Straight people please don't judge me, I'm someone who is still in the closet due to some personal reasons.Many women who are lesbians by nature ended up getting married to men due to various reasons, social reason being predominant. I don't want to make anyone's life miserable and don't want to cheat someone so took this decision.

Looking for Gay in Bangalore who is still in the closet

I met my girlfriend during college, 5 years ago. 

We were so much in love. I remember we used to go on dates to picnics, museums and the works. I spent and invested a lot of money and time in this relationship. I feel that my life is purposeless now that she has left me.

Her father is a very high ranking government official. He has gotten marriage proposals from very well endowed political connections. Apparently some ex-CM's son is out in the marriage market looking. 

I don't know why but I still thought we would make it. Like, nothing can come between us. 

She texted me last night that she was leaving me because I only make 14LPA. My hands are still trembling. 
I want to go be the best version of myself and simultaneously think that the train tracks are looking comfy to sleep on.

My girlfriend left me because I make 14LPA...

Don’t cry brother. Salary is subjective.. it might be 14 today, it will increase tomorrow. I personally feel you got saved from a gold digger. 
 You gonna get much more beautiful and honest, loving girls in Arrange marriage. 
 All the best.

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