See nibbas, This is what happens when y'all be out there all horny and super desperate.

Consultant

Sup bruh. This ain't about feminism, this is about dudes being more desperate than Joe Biden is for a second term.

Founder

What a pathetic piece of garbage is being shared here by the OP. This AMBAR_SIFF_MRA (Naam me MRA hai), if you look at his Twitter handle, you will understand the kind of rubbish and he shares. I have absolutely no doubt that this message would be fabricated to incite people into calling women as gold diggers and "pseudo-feminists". 
 And lo and behold, that's what people did here. The kind of messages here, pretty apalling.  
 Jhat barabar toh GV ke logo ki mentality hai.  
 Someone said yesterday, we should look at messages on our social media as if every day is April 1. It's high time it gets implemented here.

This post may be fake... But Hoeflation is real

Please jump into matchmaking platforms. You'll see these propositions quite often.

Software Engineer

Business Analyst

Baby I dont need dollar bills to have fun tonight  
 (I love cheap thrills) 
 I donn need yo monneeyyy 
 (Yurr more dan diamond more dan gold) 
 🎶🎶🎶

Data engineer

Damn! Tough times for everyone earning below 1cr. So, around 99.9999999 percent of the guys are ineligible. 😂

Senior Software Engineer

Content Compliance

Data Scientist

Dowry system was designed for women like her

Software Developer

The strategy is clear. Marry someone with own house, and a lot of money. Then file for divorce or fake Dowry case. Get 50% + house in settlement. Repeat, (she won’t sign a prenup if one brings it up. Court would not even accept one).  
  
 All so called indian feminists ever did was set the bar even lower in the name of promoting equality.

What is she bringing on table to have such demands? 
 And she will get guys too😒.

@COCO Some women think that they are pretty so they are above other women

Senior Product Manager

Ladki sundar hogi bas, NRI se shaadi karegi

Strategy & Operations

Khud ki aukat nahi caddhi khareedne ku baap ki caddhi me hole hai aur khud kood rahe 4 lakh me Moye moye, moyee moyyeee...

https://media1.tenor.com/m/JhreRUcHhXQAAAAC/paresh-rawal-welcome-movie.gif

Waiting for simps on this platform to come and say that they are ashamed of being a man basis above comments

Investor

Product Manager

Strong, independent, and empowered feminist

read some guy here 55LPA with 2.4LPA wife, 
 it's fairly common for India. 
  
 finding similar income women == finding unicorn

Backend Engineer

Nawabi shok Hai logon ke. Yehi log end mein khud Maruti 800 dahej mein denge taaki koi inhe consider kare. 1Cr+ income expectations huh?

10 saal se job and still at 4lpa? 
 Did she start at 50kpa?

That guy should take responsibility of her sister, younger brother and her mother,  it's like a family pack

Unfortunately this is the sad reality of arrange marriage in our society! 😂

Executive Director

Age abhi definitely iska 25 k around hoga iska. Kuch saal k baad iska demand crash karega

Associate IT Engineer

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Mumbai woman with 4 LPA salary seeks groom who earns 'at least 1 crore, is surgeon or CA'

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Mumbai woman with 4 LPA salary seeks groom who earns 'at least 1 crore, is surgeon or CA'- Grapevine

Fuck , what a waste of weekend.

story -

I am 27 years old and i am not rich enough like grapevine people. I earn 9 LPA and doing remote job. So parents started looking for girl for arrange marriage. So there is program arranged in our caste where boy and girl has to register beforehand. Registration fees is 500 per person and 400 for booklet. So i paid around 1900 and lunch is also included. This program invites all the prospects under one roof and booklet was given. Booklet has all the details of prospects.So registered candidates can have multiple meetings with different people. As you already guessed it this is problem of supply demand. Female candidates are way less and male candidates are way more. We have so many experiences like girl family just outright reject you on the basis where i live. That girl was doing nothing and have done  bcom. Also one girl family rejected us soon as we just sit for a meeting. Reason dad of female earns 4X than my father income. We had some meetings around 5-15 but hardly any positive response. Female family is able to do 20-25 meetings at  minimum and they can have choice whom to reject just on weight factor too. Shitshow out their for arrange marriage. We had a quarrel at home after coming from program that i wore some multicolour tshirt thats why we dont have further meeting. Also my parents are giving me lecture that i should have wore gold chain and bracelet to impress other people. 

another thing in booklet , boys has to mention salary. There is no mandatory thing to mention salary of girl in same booklet. Also girls are given return gift for just attending the function.

fair warning - rant on whole ecosystem of arrange marriage

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What's ideal salary one should earn before deciding to get married?

I am a 26/M/60+LPA/IITian Software Engineer at a FAANG. I have spent most of my time travelling places with my friends/solo and have dedicated a significant portion of my small life to my career, and I am quite happy with it. I am confused about one thing tho, should I get married? given I am happy living like this, I just want to hear what men have to say on this, I want to know given a chance would you guys get married? If yes how to check if a woman is a fine fit for you? I made a rule to only date a woman who makes at least 70% of my salary OR has an excellent academic background AND should be humble. With these set of rules the chances of finding a girl is almost slim to none given ratio at good colleges and at high paying tech jobs are like that 🤧, I am sure people won't find these rules good, but I want to know if I am being stupid pls correct me it will help me reshape my thinking.

Help me guys 🫡.

Are you happy with your marriage?

> at least 70% of my salary OR has an excellent academic background 
  
 I'm glad you didn't say "Only candidates from IIT/IIM can apply for this position".

I am smart looking, age 28, 5.10ft,6 abs. Goes to gym regularly and hot.

I can 
- cook amazing food, veg& non veg.
- do  cleaning, laundry.
- have a great sense of humour. 
- income- 12 lakhs 

I am looking for a girl with
- salary 1 CR p.a 
- should be hot. 
- cooking skills can be zero. I can cook. 
- age is not bar, even older than me is eligible.

Other criteria: 
 - vacation everyone 6 month abroad. 
- best of bunglow in any tier 1 city excluding Delhi (too much of pollution).
- should be good in bed. 
- no questions on the amount I spend on her credit card.

You can your share bio data in comments

Looking for a girl in arranged marriage.

29 M, IT professional in Bangalore earning around 65k/month. 
My parents are looking for girl(non-working) for my marriage later this year.(already knows girls family).
But I am worried about all the expenses post-marriage as Bangalore is already a costly city and I will only be sole-earner.

Need your honest advices here on how to manage expenses or look for a working partner.

Need advice/suggestion

I am a 30 M , got married in 2020 and clearly the marriage was not working out. My wife and her mother was always finding ways to control me from the beginning with all the little things and my wife started this drama like with every fight she used to leave the house and stay at her mother’s and not comeback until all the parents gets involved and me asking sorry, one time she left the house because I cooked the curry and had asked her to do roti this turned into a fight and just for that she left the house. And her mother threatened me that she won’t send her daughter back until I ask sorry. There were LOT of these instances and at one point I really got fed up and started standing up for myself, in the last fight she said she won’t come back again and I said please don’t I am also tired of this. After a month she started reaching out to me asking sorry and apologies and all but I had lost all trust in the relationship and I wanted sometime. Even if I let her in her mother would have ruined the relationship again , so I asked her since I have no trust you have to agree on that in future if we get divorced if we have kids the kids stay with me and I won’t pay any alimony. Following this discussion she lodged a fake domestic violence and dowry case against me and my family. And I filed for divorce after I seeing police station and all. I have all the evidence to prove that I am innocent but the court is taking very very long time and now she is asking for for a huge amount only the she will agree for divorce 😣

Worst times for men! Better to be a monster than a hero

This has been dragging from past two years and am done with my life, I can’t date anyone even though am 30 I have maintained myself in a healthy way so that I look a bit younger but because of the case is still going on… I don’t know what to do

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2BHK in a perfectly located Central Bangalore close to Ulsoor Lake and 15 minutes from work

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2.4 lakhs/month. 
      
 Not a developer. 
 Not in Tier 1 city.  
 Not in FAANG or whatever it’s called now. 
 No loans or EMIs for now. 
  
 Married to my GF of six years. She earns 1.3 lakhs/month. 
  
 Guess, I could say I am extremely satisfied.

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