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You can start by pinging people from college and school. I have a lot of friends now from school/college whom I had never interacted in school/college. You might come across some of them who are going through similar situations in life as you do. It's very easy to bond while complaining about life. 
  
 vi -> who can't afford the phone? Since you said well paying job in the end.  
  
 v -> do you like him?  
  
 i -> how often do you talk with them? Do you feel homesick? 
  
 ii -> can you not bring your parents + dogs to live with you?

Software Engineer

These feel self created problem, start to love yourself and take small steps suggested by @bantu , you shd be in much better state real soon ,talk to people and reach out to them, don't feel shy

I would suggest pursuing some hobbies to focus your mind on.  Like running, reading books, traveling if u like, and playing some instruments. Give yourself a little beak. Make some new friends that's all 🙂

Don't worry, things will get better with time.

Software Developer

I.) I lv in another state alone, pare ts don't share their troubles even when they get sick.
II.) I miss my dogs like hell,they have short life.
III) The guy

I.) I lv in another state alone, pare ts don't share their troubles even when they get sick.
II.) I miss my dogs like hell,they have short life.
III) The guy on whom I had crush in childhood is nowhere to be seen.
IV. ) The guy I had a crush for past 4 years got married yesterday. 
V.) The guy who likes me , I can't accept him bcoz of my father's narrow orthodox beliefs.
VI.) Doesn't earn much to gv mom a new phone. 
VII.) Can't hang out with my colleagues bcoz they all have highfi hobbies.
Vii.) Literally have zero contacts with classmates nither  from school nor college.
.......this new well paying job feels worthless.

Thank u 4 reading the rant.

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Welcome to Software Engineers's Private Community

I feel as I’ve grown up from college to corporate life I’ve lost out on friends and I feel kinda lonely.
This might be weird coming from a guy who’s in a relationship(happily). But you need friends too. And I had decent ones in the past, some still there but you know someone you talk to more often? I no longer feel I have those type of people in my life. And that is mostly because I stopped texting people on my own and I hardly ever got a text from them without it. 
Now to make new friends it takes a shit ton of efforts and I don’t even know where to meet new people. I wfh so definitely my social life has gone for a toss. I’m a typical software engineer. Anyway that’s it with my rant.

Friends

I am 23M working in a well renowned Fintech startup. Have got what I have dreamed of in college like high ownership, good pay and other similar things. But lately realized that I can't do these things for my majority of life. Although I enjoy my work but still feeling lonely and aimless.

Previous to September it was remote but now they have made it hybrid and I have to reallocate to Gurgaon and now I am feeling more lonely and aimless in life.

Have tried travelling and other stuffs inorder to find interest in life but nothing excites me.

What to do in life? Feeling aimless

My life has been fucked up from last 10 months. Too much work pressure and workload with daily grilling by seniors. 

Recently I interviewed with a research advisory, was hopeful that i have a chance to change my life by leaving this place. 

But after 3 rounds, I got rejected by the partner. Feeling disheartened and depressed. 

My confidence is at the bottom right now. Don't know now where to go and apply. It seems that I am helpless now.

Rant

Sorry if it feels like a vent but better be this than nothing else. This has been a slow year for me, I look everywhere and people are doing better than me. Being a fresher who had his offer revoked was already a hard blow but I somehow got a job at an MNC but even at such a low salary I'm being overworked and giving them more output than they deserve.

I'm slowly heading through a burnout or might be going through one and it's not good when I'm supposed to be so active learning new stuff but here I'm just churning out wheat like a slave. But this might not be a cry for help,I just wanna make myself aware of where I am and it's so much more than just these money-hungry sharks who hired us talking abt ethics that you should not be working for money but cause you can and enjoy. Ig I need steps to uplift myself I'll be back again tomorrow with more questions than these rants.

I'm so lost in life right now.

Which part of adulting were you not ready for?

Consultant

Being anonymous gives me a safe space. But life is getting tougher than ever each day.  
I wish I had a better paying job. I wish I had time to have slow mornings. 
I wish I could provide for my family and give them the things they much deserve. 

I wish I had a chance to rewire rewind and restart. 

I wish I could do more than I wish to do. 

It's all wishes guys . It's all hopes. .
Nothing seems fulfilling. Nothing seems to make me happy. 

I have forgotten what carefree days were like. 

Adulting is kinda hitting hard. I am not able to cope up. 
Can someone relate?

It's hard to manage work and life

People who don't have frnds/gf/bf, what you guys do on weekends and how do you spend time. I feel so bored during weekends . Suggest something.

Life feels boring

Data Consultant

It can be anything related to not doing something you always wanted to but never did, a mistake you realize you shouldn’t have made, or feelings of not being successful enough. Feel free to share your thoughts.

Do you have any regrets?

Hello I am a 26 years old female who works in a IT company, but meanwhile I am stuck with my life neither my job nor my relationship is going well, I am actually not so "relationship" type i am kinda marriage type of person, ❤️ I love someone who is from middle class and I am ready to settle if he is earning 40k even but what matters is love and understanding of both of person,

Recently I am facing issues in my relationship like he is ready to leave me if the situation is not in future, and while I am not getting any future security from him i really feel anxious and getting panic attacks each day, I am not able to sleep properly 

Meanwhile, I am saying no to projects in my company and I am not showing any willingness to work further, honestly no body is there to guide me what should I do, my mom she supports me but I am unable to sleep properly in night and each and everyday I am crying and crying, not eating properly, i really need ur suggestion guys 

Please  if anyone can suggest me or anything i should know i will be very grateful.........

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