Font style should have helped him from breakup

This seemed pretty scary

Growth Manager

This seemed pretty scary- Grapevine

What's the worst way someone broke up with you?

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In relationship with her for almost 4 years. Although relationship is kind of toxic but there're lot of emotional memories. She's bit of abusive when in anger and on the other hand I also made lot of mistake by giving hope & all. It becomes kind of hard for me to handle her anger. Now I trying to fix things up for our future. I tried connecting with lot of my friends & psychologist, but didn't get balanced solution. By balanced solution, I mean both of us should not suffer unfairly and live life peacefully. Both of us come from lower middle class family and both approaching 30. she's not working.

1. I have few responsibility for my family as well. So, one of my friend suggested "to do breakup and not continue because of these family responsibility. If I go with her, then in the end I have to sacrifice one thing in my life (sacrifice means not good future), either my family, her or my career. and not being true to my family responsibilities in future will give me more guilt than breaking up with her. and they told It'll become hard for me with family guilt. In chess, sometime you have to sacrifice queen to win. Also, they asked me to read geeta that duty comes first than anything else. and family didn't make any wrong and deserve the best in future."

2. My judgement around this is kind of messedup right now. Although i understand the logic part of it and completely agree with this. but Emotional part of this is kind of making me feel guilt. that i did very wrong to someone. and Even i understand that it'll be hard/impossible for me carry all these burden in future, still I think lets go with her just that I dont want her to suffer things.

3. Above 2 solution feels very biased to me. In both solution, one of us have to suffer badly. Posting here to get your solution. I know both type of people exist here. Someone will feel more for her and other will prefer family.  

for more context - https://grapevine.in/post/98de98e6-d9fb-48ea-90ce-b05c82214362

Suggestion needed about future

Software Engineer

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The date on that screenshot looks photoshopped
There’s no name on the email
And from what I know, YC does not invite for interviews to SF anymore

If true, this is ridiculous

Link to LI post: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/krishn-paliwal-428a47194_excited-to-announce-that-ive-received-an-activity-7112740822621564930-lcEH?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_ios

Link to likely source image: https://images.app.goo.gl/3P9ZNRRPSKqnTyxT8

Founder likely lying about getting a YC interview, to get angels to invest

Analyst

Now I know why it didn't work out

Business Analyst

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hey all

can some one pls guide me about what are the salaries and roles offered to a 22 yr old fresher at colleges like 

IMI, Delhi IMT, Gzb, SIBM, Pune or SIIB, Pune

in the marketing domain? what sort of companies come for consulting? 

(a breakup of in-hand + bonus would be appreciated, trying to decipher what holds for me beyond the placements reports)

B-school placements

The hell did I just see

Product Marketing Manager

Such a dull Saturday!
Please share something interesting

What's the latest gossip? What's new f* up you did?

Consultant

Welcome to Office Gossip's Private Community

How did your personal life affect your professional life ? Share your positive/ negative experiences.

A lot. 
 Sister suffers severe psychological ssues. 
 Has been known since 4 years. Can't leave her alone. Trying to get her up on her feet has been a challenge since such people are not that socially acceptable. 
 We've had to juggle cities just so that someone is there to tend to her.  
 It drains the life out of your life. 
 Such things definitely affect professional life as you can't give 100% to your work when your mentally stuck at your home.

Software Developer

Product Manager

Heyaaa i have a random doubt if u r in relationship and u r traumized and dealing a lot of hell and u r close to suicide and u r in long distance but u saw that ur boyfriend consoling you but at the same time he is doing online shopping and roaming with his friend? Will you continue with that guy?

Relationship hurdle

Finance Operations

My friend an early age startup founder who was about to get married in 3 months 
Was told by his gf ( now fiancé) recently that she cheated on him twice - 2 years back and one year back 
{diff diff guy}

She told that she had only kisses with other guy and it happened because she was vulnerable at that time 

While this happened she didn’t tell and once the marriage thing started happening - she confessed 

Both of their families know each other as they were about to get married 

Now this friend is asking if he should move on or give an another chance 

Any advice fella I’m his cofounder 😮‍💨

Cheating in relationship

If she cheated on him during their relationship, she could potentially do it after marriage as well. Red flag

Investor

Disclaimer: This is not a dating post

Started casually speaking to this guy from Grapevine. I got the confidence that he is genuine, so we chatted (no long chats or daily talk) over Instagram for 4-5 months. 
He had to fly to Bangalore for some work, so we planned to meet. He was all excited and decided the place too. We met for lunch; nothing shady or that would make me uncomfortable, he had some work so left after that. 

We had exchanged numbers, and I thanked him over Whatsapp. It was all cutesy and funny for a day. I even shared some ice cream place I went to, the next day with friends. 

And then talks went to zero. Anything I shared got a one-word responses. 
So I stepped back; no point being pushy even in friendship. We haven't talked for over a month now.

But he was (is) such a nice person. I don't know why he would just stop talking for no reason. 
Is it something I did or said? Was he expecting something different that I didn't do?

Do I send him some meme or something?
Am I overthinking? He could be simply too busy to talk to someone he met once

Need Help decoding this Situation - Guy suddenly went silent

I always looked at her and felt she is so beautiful, charismatic, and had an infectious smile. Looking at her made me smile broo.

Chapter 1
One day I decided to ask her out. I messaged her and our conversation grew then she spilled out that she also liked me a lot. And she was glad that I asked her out.

Chapter 2
She had studied in an all girls school and she had a stereotype about boys that they are all stupid and bad. And girls and boys should never be together. I was fine because atleast she liked me 😂. One fine day she asked me to break up with my brosss. I asked her why?
She said your friends are all playboys and I don't like the way they look at me. (Disclaimer: My bros are really nicest guys and I have known them since childhood they are the best gentlemen). We had an argument which didn't end on a good note.


Chapter 3
I left to a new state for my Job. After I reached there she messaged me that we can't talk and we have to stop whatever we had. I got anxious and worried and spent my 5 months not being able to contact her. I got into depression. Then me being restless on my birthday I came back to my hometown. At exactly 11:59PM when my bday was going to end she messaged me "Happy Birthday". I was so happy to see her message.

Chapter 4
We started talking and she said that she is leaving to Canada for her higher studies. I was happy for her but at the same time I was sad. I didn't want to see her go. We both cried and stayed on call till morning watching each other sleep.

Chapter 5:
She reached Canada and she completed her formalities and procedures. We talked for few more days but then eventually she started giving me hints that she is not interested. Then one day she abruptly messaged me and said we can't talk and we have to end everything. I cried the whole night, because there was no way for me to contact her and she had blocked me.

Chapter 6:
It has been 1 yr to that day. Somehow I have gone numb. I'm slowly forgetting her.

She left me.

Chill. After 5-6 years you will laugh on yourself that why in the world you gave so much importance to her. There is no derth of good women in this world. Moving her away was god's plan, for your good that you might never understand. Take Care!

What all did you not see, and now years later come at you like "How could you be so dumb?"

What's your story of "I was blind in love"?

I'm 21 m. Had a 9 months old relationship with a girl who's 6 months older. It was the best 9 months of my life. We connected on so many levels that I never thought would happen with me at such a young age. 

Recently, she broke up with me. It was not our mistake. Her mother isn't well (from a long time, and I knew that) and her last wish is to see her daughter getting married. 

Forcefully, she had to admit this and told me everything. And told me that we need to end this. 

It's been 3 weeks, and there's minimal contact between us. 

I'm a final year college student, not getting placements, too much pressure from family. I can't think about anything. Feels like all of this is eating me up. We had very secure future plans, but everything is over now. I don't know what to do. 

I try very hard to stay on track, but her thoughts are eating me up. I've started meditation, therapy and everything, but nothing is working the way I thought it would do. 

She was the one that gave me assurance that everything will be fine. Her presence was the most peaceful thing I had, but now, there's nothing. 

Help me, please. 

PS: please don't judge me the way I am. I'm trying to be normal as much as possible but nothing's working.

Need urgent help.

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Picture this: A woman can lodge a case against her heterosexual partner if their relationship sours and does not end in marriage.

Section 69 of the new Bhartiya Nyaya Sanhita has provision for up to 10 years' jail for sexual relationships by deceit, including on the pretext of marriage.

Section 69 could be used to harass and jail men for breaking up with their partners. 

Any lawyers here care to explain this in more detail here?

Are Indian men in trouble?  Is breaking up with your partner a crime now?

We've been together for 2 months and I just can't take it anymore, she's very invested on me,also very dumb, how do I get out of the relationship in an optimal way.

Break up tips

2 mahine hi hue hai bhai, 1 mahine ka notice serve karle.. abi b time hai , probation period ko poora serve kia to phass jaega 90 days k notice pe...pata chala retain hogya

Like you genuinely go ahead and love someone seriously and they just leave. How did you come out of it???

Fu** this

On lighter note, for all those who are crying not all men, this is for you guys 😬

The man, the myth, the legend 😂😂😂

I joined AmEx Gurgaon in 2015 in PoS Fraud Strategy as a Business Analyst. I was having a rough time at AmEx as I really wanted to pursue my passion of Mathematics in the US. I had secured an admit at Univeristy of Illinois - Urbana Champaign and UT-Austin in their MS programme and was totally checked out at work.

During my tenure at AmEx, I was mostly bored. Looking at internal tools and spreadsheets was the worst. This coupled with the fact that I was travelling to and fro between Noida and Gurgaon meant that I was commuting a solid 4 hours everyday.

In this time of mental agony, I met this charismatic young woman, she was an Analyst in the Credit Underwriting Team. I don't know what got into me and I asked her out to coffee. We went to the Starbucks in CyberHub the next morning and she was the most delightful personality ever. Sweet and elegant, she talked of her passion with vigour, from her ideals to writing poems. I left that conversation feeling uneasy though. 

She reminded me of what I wanted but also of what I was scared to lose in her. 

We continued to date for the next 6 months in a hush-hush manner to avoid any suspicion at AmEx. I had to start the process of getting my F1-visa for the US and when I told her about it she was extremely disheartened.

In my heart, I knew that I wanted to spend the rest of my days with her and life without her was nothing but an empty void. She came with me to the US Consulate Office, and I don't know what got into me but I kissed her.

I knew that I wanted her more than anything else. 

Decided not to give the Visa Interview and applied to ISB with my GRE score. Got into it and ended up becoming a Management Consultant in MBB. 

We got married in 2019 and welcomed our daughter into this world in 2021. 

I wonder what life would've been living in the US. But whatever it would be, it couldn't be better than being in her arms when we come back from work. 

Have faith. Everything will turn out to be okay. Trust the process

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