Loosing self respect over girls. Unnecessary simping

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Software Engineer

1. Picking up smoking and drinking just to fit in. 
  
 2. Despite knowing which set of people is right and wrong, going with the latter just to look cool. 
  
 3. Playing with parents trust - By asking them money for books, activities, projects, but burning them on all kind of crappy activities.

Software Developer

Extremely disappointing but that happens frequently.

Senior Software Engineer

Not maintaining cgpa like 8.x 
 Not grinding enough leetcode type problems 
  
 At the end as long as you score great job,  
 figuratively 7 khoon tak maaf hai.

Backend Engineer

Doing things because of peer pressure and doing things just to look cool.

Consultant

Product Manager

Starts smoking,drinking and ganja due to peer pressure and to get in company of "cool seniors" and then gets addicted to the extent that they refuse to believe it's addiction ("bhai mera immune system strong hai kuch nahi hoga") and ultimately ruin their health as well as career while keeping their parents in dark about their lifestyle habits

Some things which students should not do / focus on durning college time  Like focusing too much on CTC instead of learning

Some things which students should not do / focus on durning college time 
Like focusing too much on CTC instead of learning

What are some mistakes students do in college

What are some mistakes students do in college- Grapevine

What's your biggest mistake that you made in college.

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Please mention your mistakes you've done in your preparation period for companies as a fresher. 
As I am a fresher, so that I can avoid those problems at first.

Mistakes in Preparations

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Hello guys
Soon i will be starting with my engineering college
Can u please guide me how can i be the best in the field on what areas should i focus more 
And please share some resources and study technique which you guys have used in your days

College

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I'm interning at a startup. My manager gave me this task
I'm trying all my best efforts to do it. But I'm not getting a solution for this
I'm becoming mentally ill because of this
Is it okay say that I can't do this anymore??

Is it okay not to complete the project?

Hello everybody, I am a CSE student currently in the 3rd year of my undergrad. I am facing a problem in finding peers or friends with similar interests and some good effort towards learning something new and creating projects or products with me . I am studying in a college where my classmates are not interested in doing significant work; they prefer simple tasks and rely on cramming to achieve good GPAs. Can you give me some advice to help me find my way in this situation?

"Seeking Advice: Finding Motivated Peers in Computer Science"

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What would you do differently in your life?

Comment below!

If you had enough money in your life so that you don't have to work for money, would you still do the same job you are doing?

What would you do different if you went back to college?

for me. i spent college studying for grades and 20s making money in a job I don't like, but never got to make the memories I should've with all my friends. I regret doing all of that

what is your worst mistake professionally?

If we are spiralling, let's spiral right

1. Focused solely on grades in colleges
2. Thought Campus placements were ultimate goal
3. Spent 3 years in a company with 5% increment (once), because it was comfortable
4. Scared to ask even minimum budget while negotiating salary
5. Overthinking every step, still not taking actions to correct or fuck up anything
6. Major major regret - not taking risk of starting own. It also has to do with parenting, but lets not blame.
7. Ran away from public sharing - speaking, athletics, all extracurricular activities for that matter. Kids grow up with zero confidence and looking fat & ugly. (I'm not fat shaming, some fat people look 🤌)

I'll add more, there will be more for sure 😂

I am in 2nd year in college pursuing computer science..so far most of the time i do competitive programming and sometimes web development..i am working hard but because of the never ending depressing posts on LinkedIn and blind about layoffs and recession plus no hiring in big tech..i feel that all my hard work will be not worth it in future..also the people have made this wonderful field a joke by this standup comedians who joke about engineers every time.........i really want to contribute to this society and earn great amount of money as well but the hope is decreasing day by day..

What should I do😔😢?

Depressed

/s

[ also hoping to have some responses from people in their 30s & 40s for insights ]

pls don’t say boards dene ki jagah crypto kharidna tha 2014 me🫠

What’s your biggest regret in life?

Business Analyst

So, I graduated in 2020 and joined this org at 9 ctc, worked on good stuff for 2.5 years, got two hikes and reached at 14, got promoted as well and currently at 17. Though I gave some interviews during golden 21-23 period, I couldn't switch. Seeing my friends from college having switched atleast once, with some becoming sde2 at Microsoft and Amazon, my confidence is now broken.

Although I realise my mistakes and can't do anything about past. How should I pick up from here. Just went through sample interview exp at lc, and have prepared a roadmap, however that would take another 3 months, how much impact my cctc would have on future ones. Kindly advice for any preparation tips as well.

Getting jealous of my friends Ctc

Hello guys  I am a student ( preparing for my entrance exam) within the next 2-3 months I will start going to college 
Can anyone please guide me on what areas I should focus on so that I can have a good job in future ??

Starting with engineering

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Iam student but still I do it

I (27, Mumbai, India) switched from non-tech background ( commerce) 2 years ago , and started with learning  frontend development and grinded very hard despite all odds. And i recently joined (March to be precise) as a React JS web developer. We are a team of all freshers except for the TL of course. Before getting the job,  I only focused on the web development part and never learned DSA except for solving codewars sometimes. Now, in my non office hours, I try learning DSA and solving codewars/neetcode problems which takes all that time and I am also reading a book on javascript. But sometimes I get into a dilemma, like it happened today, where I wonder if I am correct to learn DSA and improve logic building and dive deep into javascript, OR should I instead invest my non office hours in diving deep into React JS and also improving my CSS skills (where I suck a lil). I really get into this dillema somedays and end up getting anxious. Please tell me what you think. It would be very helpful, and I would be grateful.  Thank you.

Am I doing the right thing? What should I more focus on?

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Why so many affairs in office these days ?

My boss has affair with work life balance. He doesnt share it with anyone

Engineering Manager

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Your biggest personal regret

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I am bca student in ipu college get admission through cuet so last spot admission I have small time to study I have 2 back in 1 sem and college said impossible for me to get job on campus no develope skill interested in analyst but not sure how to land a job on campus please some suggest me

I fucked up college

( RANT ) 
Currently in my 2nd year of engineering in a good college in Bangalore . I am worrying a lot about career , my day starts with thinking about interships, skills, studies and ends with which career to pursue , startups / big MNC . All my day I am worrying. I know this should not be the case but I can't help , nobody around me are thinking about future, I can't discuss with anyone, they just chill and enjoy. 
Has they are from CS / EC , there placements are secured which is not the case with me. 
I know I should be focused on CGPA and skills ,but these thoughts scare me a lot , I don't know where should I focus on , which direction I should start working, no guidance, nothing.
like this only 2022 passed. I have plans to pursue MBA .
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