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What is your one personality trait which is boon and bane of your existence?

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PinkHedge

PWC

13 days ago

I am not a people pleaser. Helps me avoid stupid ppl and keep them at bay. Well it has its cons. In office i should be a little bit of ppl pleaser.
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BiryaniEnthu

Stealth

13 days ago

My anger I'm not explaining
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Hoax

Student

13 days ago

Not liking other people to depend upon me
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Stealth

what's your weakness?

mines not being able to handle bullshit. I call out shit, and it hurts people

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by BiryaniEnthu

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Took up a talking-to-people job as an introvert

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What qualities you wish you possessed?

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by 99bytes

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Are you too nice to people at work?

Symptoms of being ‘too nice’ to people at work: - Overuse of gratitude words like Thank you, please, could you, kindly, etc on all forms of communication at work. - Registering your reactions like thumbs up & clap to literally every chat message in slack/teams/discord channels at work. - Praise excessively on meetings like retrospectives, etc. - Replying ‘thank you’ to every individual person who wished you or congratulated you for some occasion, especially in WhatsApp groups. Have you ever introspected why you are ‘too nice’ to people instead of just being ‘nice’ to people?

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Gojek

Personality Types in Software Engineering

Try out the test in case you haven't.(it is not exactly scientific but it is super fun) What are some of your personality types? I am an ENTJ. Also, how do you guys deal with the negative attributes of your personality? I feel that the more stress I am under the better I get at the expense of becoming more aggressive and irrational. ( I once bought a second hand Royal Enfield Interceptor 650 without even knowing how to ride a bike because this girl I liked then said that I couldn't pull off that vibe) Now I have a mental coach to help me through the wild wild west of being me. and yes, I sold that bike soon after.

Only 10 minutes to get a “freakishly accurate” description of who you are and why you do things the way you do.

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

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by BiryaniEnthu

Stealth

Unmarried men, what is that you seek in your to-be spouse?

Can be a list too. But Only unmarried men

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by jake_peralta_B99

Unemployed

What's happening with the job market?

I see jobs being there, but even the entry level jobs are requiring experience. I saw a associate level job posting on linkedin for a startup asking for 4-6 years experience. This is in line with the recent article at The KEN. Are people really ready to work for low salary for high skills? What does this mean for the freshers, job switchers/career switchers? Are we all doomed for now? What's your take on the market?

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Microsoft

What's your Biggest pet peeve? Instant turn off?

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by TheOatmeal

Stealth

Being overly aware is a curse.

You overthink because your mind moves million miles a min.

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by AdeptTurret6

Stealth

I shut down under pressure

So I might get some hate for this. I know this is weakness and the feedback I've gotten is toughen up. But I've never known how. Is there anyone else whose body and mind had accepted that they're not going to amount to anything but fought their way through it? Can you tell me your story? Or give me any book suggestions?