WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit

Would you consider living in a tier 3 town if the guy is well-established?

Looking for opinions: If a guy is settled in a tier 3 town, earning a good income, owns a large house, and has a couple of businesses, with supportive and open-minded family, and no bad habits, would you consider moving there?

About the guy:

  • 6 feet tall, well-mannered, average-looking, with a good nature
  • Recently received a marriage proposal, parents are asking me to consider but want to leave final decision to me.

The town might not have a lot of activities, but it offers a strong family environment and a spacious home. Would love to hear your thoughts!

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SnoozyDumpling
SnoozyDumpling

Just because he has good income, doesn't mean its going to be yours. Just because he has a big house, doesn't mean he is going to give it to you.
Living in a tier 3 city, business family= No travel. Stay at home, take care of family, entertain guest 24x7. Life is not going to be easy. If you are up for it then you should consider. Else consider you are locking youself in a golden cage.

FluffyMochi
FluffyMochi

Def not for ambitious ladies

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

Living in big house as the malkin, getting an opportunity to contribute in multiple business, an environment conducive to grow a big family is golden cage?

Let me guess working 18 hrs for a series A startup, that focuses on changing the world by building an app that delivers cola within 10 mins, for an ungrateful boss who will crib about people not being committed enough only to get fired because the funds raised was used to buy a BmW for the founder who was thinking about the company strategy is a 7 star hotel is the definition of freedom . I support this freedom. Let's struggle to End patriarchy.

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

Tier 3 towns have better quality of life than cities right now. If the family owns multiple businesses then life is probably going to be pretty chill. You can always travel to tier 1 towns occasionally to party and catch up with friends, that's what I do.

But yes, you should be self sufficient and independent in keeping yourself occupied with stuff imo. Even tier 2 and 3 cities need the events and activities of tier 1, maybe you can start a side hustle yourself.

Everything else is secondary, guy should be compatible with you. As long as that's fine, everything else will fall in place.

GoofyRaccoon
GoofyRaccoon
Student4mo

Don't listen to these people. Your regressive selection criteria suggest that you'll fit right in

SnoozyDumpling
SnoozyDumpling

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FloatingCupcake
FloatingCupcake
TCS4mo

I would give up my job to live in a Tier 3 city. They have good air , calm and peaceful environment , Less People and the people who would actually care about you.. Less dust , a slow easy and comfortable life with lots of time to learn new habits and do what you coudnt learn earlier due to time constraints.. Its my opinion but I personally find no life in big cities .You work like a labour from morning and reach home around 8-9 pm .. and live only on weekends.. what kind of shitty life is this... You run the rat race to earn more money , whose lion share goes to pay the necessities which are costly due to stupid reasons like rent in big cities... Thats not a life i feel... totally my opinion though..

PerkyDumpling
PerkyDumpling

Avoid. Moving from what you are used to. Is not easy also families aren't easy to deal with

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