You are alone at the end of the day..!

I feel as I’ve grown up from college to corporate life I’ve lost out on friends and I feel kinda lonely. This might be weird coming from a guy who’s in a relationship(happily). But you need friends too. And I had decent ones in the past, some still there but you know someone you talk to more often? I no longer feel I have those type of people in my life. And that is mostly because I stopped texting people on my own and I hardly ever got a text from them without it. Now to make new friends it takes a shit ton of efforts and I don’t even know where to meet new people. I wfh so definitely my social life has gone for a toss. I’m a typical software engineer. Anyway that’s it with my rant.

Has someone else also felt this that the weekends feel too lonely and saddening. I go to office 5 days a week have good set of work friends across team (the people in my fellowship), go to gym and hangout with people in PG. But boom as weekend is here there is no work no Gym no friends in office or pG to hangout with. Friday night I pass with playstation games but Saturday becomes like a helll for me. I forcibly motivate myself to give a mock test on Sunday and end the weekend but weekend is like the worst part of my week. Anyone else facing it or tips to make it better

So when when did you last cried? Are you emotionally stable ? How do you control your emotions ? I am emotionally breakdown point where I am struggling to find a new job( I know people will say u have a job but I have multiple reasons ) ,been applying to jobs with referrals and without too for SDE 1 role. But I am not able receive a single call from companies for interview from past 2 months. I am tired ,I cried today to fix my mental health ,XD nothing happened. 23M, YOE 1.4 years , Cloudops engineer CTC :7.5 lpa (if it matters)

Is it okay to be alone rather than being with guys I don't like. College friends are the worst I have ever had.

Sometimes I usually think, Why do I lose our school and college friends one by one? Is this a sign of maturity, reality, or something else? I am just 25 years old, and within 3 years I have lost 90 percent of my circle and the few who left, with whom I usually get time to chat, call, or plan to get out. And I feel that some day I will also lose them. Can you guys make some comments that I have became matured or that this is the actual reality of damn life?

Here’s what I have been feeling nowadays, I suffer alone every night, smile during the day & tell friends only half and parents nothing so they don't worry about them. I finally end up becoming a big ball of bottled up emotions. I was trying to talk to my colleagues about this and no one seems to care. All they care about is their own life and that is fair. Is life all about suffering and pain?

Hi guys, I just graduated and started working. My office doesn't really have an in-office work culture, so I usually go to the office once in a while. The rest of the days I work from home. I live at home, and I agree that staying with your family brings in a lot of comfort. But the place where I live is a small town. I don't have friends here, and my social life has become almost zero. I feel like I have no one to talk to, my college friends on the other hand have moved to metro cities for their jobs, living with their friends. I see them enjoying every weekend which makes me feel bad as I don't have any friends here. Even my college friends have stopped talking to me. At times, I feel very lonely and sad. I have also been seeing a therapist for a while now. Could someone please help me with any advice/suggestions. I'm in dire need of advice/ perspective and have no one to talk to.

Feeling puzzled about lasting friendships lately. I'm usually the one initiating conversations, and it seems like people go silent for days on WhatsApp as if they don’t use it. Is this a common experience ?🤔 How do people manage to last their school or college friendships?