This is the first time I am gonna ask something related to my personal life on grapevine bczz i know my fellow GRAPEVINERS are either went through it , going through it or will gonna experience it . Nowadays the bars for Getting a compatible partner is so high that most of the relationships and marriages aren't even working out .
people who are well settled are even seperating from their partner due to many issues , i am just 22 but it's natural to crave for someone's presence in your life but seeing around the breaks ups and divorces are on a rise due to this busy life , hook up culture , hypergamy etc . It makes me worried that will i actually able to get someone good in my life , i know no one is perfect but what if I'll miss the opportunity to get someone good or what if any toxic person comes who will make life a hell. Many of my friends are in relationship and even those who aren't even sure about their lives and career and the first thing that comes in my mind after watching them is - "Arre iski bhi haiš" ,
Right now I am focused on my career but these thoughts strike in my mind from time to time
1)Ppl who r getting married at late twenties or mid thirties are also having these doubts so donāt worry much.
2)Donāt just jump into relationship bcoz you want someoneās presence around bcoz when things turn out ugly n youāll undergo heartbreak.
3)Be clear of what you seek in a partner & be aware of red flags, never ignore them thinking you can fix it later.
I know you canāt predict when you would fall in love but as u said pls focus on your career at this age.
Make good friends to hangout or create a new bond with your family as friends so that youāll not feel the urge to get attention outside.
The grass is greener on other side... It seems like that.
Since you are in early 20's , you should focus on building a better career (it doesn't mean staying overtime in office), you should improve your skills, and try for better jobs.
Bhai chill kro. Right one will love u and your D as well. She will suck it
I am 28 now and in an arranged marriage scenario, especially people who are around this age find your life partner by yourself, dont ignore this if you want a life partner, i got rejected in an arranged marriage scenario just due to the ...
To all single grapeviners, how and where are you searching for life partners?
To all committed/married folks, how and where did you find your life partner?
I tried the AM route, but so far no such luck and really exhaustive.
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All of us at some point of time go through this phase, fortunately/unfortunately I am going through it too!
Just wanted to know from experienced people, how do you find the right person on the basis of just a few questions?
Or what que...