ZippyPickle
ZippyPickle

At what age did u marry and what kind of salary and savings u had that time.

I feel that if I marry next year end , I will be 29. But due to some reasons I started my job late had gap, my salary will be 1lac/month when I marry and saving just enough to go to one international trip for few days after marriage(I guess that should take less than 5 lacs ). And major marriage expense I am expecting my parents to handle. I am not a fan of marriage , but I don't want to repeat mistakes i did in past of not taking timelines seriously. So just want to finish this task of marriage, as after 2-3 years my dad will also retire from his govt job. I just hope that after marriage girl will be understanding and we both progress. I have now realised that we keep dealing hoping for perfection and 1 crore saving. But I want to be grounded and be real now.

29d ago
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BouncyDonut
BouncyDonut
  1. Was freelancing & earning almost 80k-1L/month.
ZippyPickle
ZippyPickle

So without a stable job girls father agreed to marry his daughter to such person ? Nowadays girls father abuses boys who come to see their daughter with less than 20lpa package in my network

GoofyCupcake
GoofyCupcake

Yes finish this task. But ensure no bugs

BubblyMarshmallow
BubblyMarshmallow

Basically tum 4 lakh bhi kamate tho 3 international trip ka sochte... aur expectation 6 ki karte.. tho chill karo..acchi ladki dhundo bas..

BubblyMarshmallow
BubblyMarshmallow

Bhai har level pe pahredar hain. Kisi aur ke liye mat jii.. tera mard hona teri galti nahin bro..

SquishyBoba
SquishyBoba

Bro, don’t spend your entire savings on that international trip. Keep the marriage expenses less and go for a honeymoon trip which you can afford with your current savings. In the current job market keeping an emergency savings fund is very much necessary.

WobblyCupcake
WobblyCupcake

i am marrying next year from last 5 years, I will be 33 soon my salary has increased from 70k to 300k in this time period. just get a match for yourself forget about anything else

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