The vision of working from scratch to build wealth has made so many families be in middle class Dowry also pushed families from wealthy to working class Raising kids as frustrated, tired individuals - Such a shitty arrangement imo
Hmm.. why does this sound so familiar. In process of AM and talking to few prospects where the girl’s family is rich whereas as I have tier-1 degrees and a high paying job.
Exactly đź’Ż it is very true and I'm so glad to see people are now being vocal for this ...
still happening to some extent in arrange marriages. though dowry cases are coming down a lot, still marriages in india are treated as grand occasion and burn a big hole in pockets of both the sides.
Marriage as a concept is rigged. girl’s family demanding the payslips of men. guy’s family wanting a sanskari bahu. not checking if they are compatible with each other, imposing 60+ old ideology to this generation.
People in current generation looking for situation-ship, hookups than actually committing to one person and trying to make things right.
Most marriages are becoming transactional. divorce cases are getting increased day by day. the thought of choosing a wrong partner scares most of us.
I grew up with a stay at home mom but I have plenty of friends who grew up with “power couple” parents. If anything, the kids with working moms were better prepared for school and were more... polished? And I know plenty of fuck ups whos...
Times are different now. Kids raised in Delhi/Mumbai don’t give a shit if you didn’t make it to their events, they gi...
It's literally the same thing.
"Our daughter was a topper in her class in school and earns 4 LPA in a reputed MNC. We are seeking grooms from IIT/II...
I blame parents for this. Not that coaching centres are saints, they suck the life out of students by making them study 24/7 but the reason that child is in coaching centre is because parents put him/her there.
And every suicide lette...
The root cause of all this is overpopulation and a shortage of jobs. Coaching centers and tough parenting only exist ...
my parents have done 3x better than me.. one working, 2 kids and 3bhk house at age 30.. can't imagine this nowadays
They didn't buy 400 rs coffees to put on their Instagram stories
A few years back, the idea of dating was a full-on taboo at home. If I even hinted at going out with someone, my parents would switch into lecture mode: “Focus on your career, there’s no rush for all this dating nonsense.” To them, datin...