Hi everyone, So in the week, I’m chill in office but on the weekend , I’m completely lonely and I live near airport because office, and I don’t have enough money to afford a vehicle and the whole clothes washing drying takes up the whole Saturday cause living in a pg. I’m on the verge of crying every Saturday night and Sunday and felt like a dead person throughout. Sunday I’m coding cause looking for a job change and parents about to retire. So I’m looking for some trustworthy friends to help me grow and with whom I can be happy with. Would be grateful if someone help me in improving the quality of life. Thanks in advance
I have borderline depression.
My mental health has improved considerably since I started working out(develop a hobby), I usually never went out on weekends (only used to go if drinking was involved), started going to places like Cubbon, try to explore places that are nearby.
Please reach out to a therapist if you don’t want to go on medication.
And please cry, feels good for once, we as men are told “Mard nahi rote”, shatter that stereotype.
Sahi bola Bhai
One more thing, if you have friends be 100% sure before discussing your issues with them or even giving them hints, even the best of friends will mock you. Here no one will help. Take professional help, talk to a therapist or a doctor. I am speaking from experience and hope you don’t make the same mistakes as me. @Mouse_singh
Hey buddy,
I can recommend a few things which can help
What's your location?
Amruthnagar near Jakkur airdome
Ok I'm working in HYD If you need a study partner my discord id schar28 I am too mostly lonely on sat and Sun but I'm fine with it, this is what I do mostly on weekends learning/reading books/or I paint something. I started running in the morning everyday which is helping me a lot I was kind of calm now.
I went to the doctor and they said I’m borderline depressed, they recommended medication but I wanted to solve it without them, if nothing is found I might have to take those
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