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by BronzeTick

9 months ago

Girlfriend left me after fighting. what to do?

I had a big argument with my girlfriend yesterday evening. We were at a club with our friend group. I got super drunk because of work pressure. I only did it to relax. I went to the washroom to pee and when I came back I saw my gf standing with her back towards me. I was super drunk and I cuddled her from behind. Big mistake. It was not my girlfriend but her friend. I got confused because both were wearing similar dresses and it was a little dark. Also they have similar physique. My girlfriend threw her drink on me and started walking out of the club. I tried to explain that they had similar outfits but she said that she is wearing mauve while her friend was wearing purple. It was so dark and I couldn't understand the colour difference, both looked purple to me. She left after fighting. I apologized to her friend and she is okay with it. but my gf is saying that she hates me and has blocked me on whatsapp. What should i do?

BrisbaneBunny

Bollywood

9 months ago

"Mauve Mauve" is the new Moye Moye. 🌚 Sorry couldn't help.

GallonMusk

Software engineer

9 months ago

xd 😂😂😂

FunnyBones

Plivo

9 months ago

Haha this trend is not dying

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DesignTinker

Stealth

9 months ago

Good for you. Who gets so mad at such trivia matters. Unless sir you have a history with her “friend” 😉

BronzeTick

Accenture

9 months ago

Her friend kissed me drunk once. But it was a small incident.

GanymedeImmortal

VMware

9 months ago

bruh what.

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Brutallyhonest

Stealth

9 months ago

Look bunch of SRK movies, you will get tonnes of idea🙃 else look Emraan Hashmi movie and get going with her friend. Both ways you win

BronzeTick

Accenture

9 months ago

reported. you are being a troll to me.

Brutallyhonest

Stealth

9 months ago

Thanks! Bro

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tbk

Startup

9 months ago

Maybe you're better off without this insecure girl.

BiryaniEnthu

Stealth

9 months ago

@tbk ghar basne pehle hi tudwa do 🤦‍♀️

tbk

Startup

9 months ago

Kalyug hai madam kal ko dono behne milkar, is bhai ko sexual harrasment case fek ke maarde aur career aspirations ka abcd karde. It's better to be safe than sorry.

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GallonMusk

Software engineer

9 months ago

According to my experience you should gave her a sorry gift. Then tell her what actually happened

GallonMusk

Software engineer

9 months ago

Ek cheez aur mujhe experience Naa ke barabar hai 😂😂

AITookMyJobToo

Stealth

9 months ago

🤣🤣🤣

Frostygig5

Stealth

9 months ago

Ghar ja ke baat

BronzeTick

Accenture

9 months ago

She lives a bit too far but I don’t want it to come off as some kind of creepy behaviour.

Frostygig5

Stealth

9 months ago

Imo call her then more you wait more she will be angry

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GlassSkin63

Stealth

9 months ago

Well if both are looking similar enough to be confused, the answer is clear.

BronzeTick

Accenture

9 months ago

that is?

Secretman

Gojek

9 months ago

Jyada daaru ho gyi

DiwaliBonus

Zomato

9 months ago

Get a bunch of flowers, maybe a box of Ferrero Rocher, and go to her place. Talk calmly, and get things sorted out. ASAP ASAP ASAP Don't sleep on it or wait. The longer, the worse.

BronzeTick

Accenture

9 months ago

I am thinking of getting her a cake from SMOOR

BouncyDenim

ICICI Bank

9 months ago

@BronzeTick Dark chocolate works?

salt

Gojek

9 months ago

What did I just read? 😂😂

BronzeTick

Accenture

9 months ago

are you laughing at me?

ElonMast

Amazon

9 months ago

Learn the colour spectrum before next relationship 🏹

BronzeTick

Accenture

9 months ago

Hahahaha 😂

papaMusk

Atlassian

9 months ago

Good Riddance

BronzeTick

Accenture

9 months ago

I think it was a small misunderstanding that’s all you know?

MarkZuckerberg

Meta

9 months ago

If you saw ur girlfriend in same situation will your first and apparently prolonged reaction will be like her? One thing to impulsively react, another thing to make a big deal out of it.

MightyLazyGeekStar

Stealth

9 months ago

Guess people only want spice in their life. Hope this all doesn’t turn into hood

Celsius_Fahrenheit

Stealth

9 months ago

How long were you in a relationship with her? If it's a little new (<6 months), it is understandable. It's all rosy in the beginning, so this can be a little unbearable. If it's longer than that, ideally it should be understandable. But if not, then also it's not wrong in her case. Women are emotional beings. Your unknowingly cuddling her friend would've likely been too much for her in either case. I don't know your gf at all...but if someone is reacting the way you've described...then go at her place and explain yourself again (obviously take some gifts). Would suggest to go sometime in the next 2 days. Give her her own time to process too. If she's been brought up as a person who believes in loyalty and is overall a nice person who is logical and not overly emotionally irratic, things should be fine. If she still isn't budging at the end, best would be that you tell her that you'll break up with that 'friend' and block her from everywhere. It would give her psychological comfort. It's possible she might think that you've got a thing for your friend. Better to sacrifice that friend to save your relationship. Good luck!

PocusDweeber

Stealth

9 months ago

Maybe she wanted to break up and this was an easy way out to put the blame on you

BouncyDenim

ICICI Bank

9 months ago

Did you discuss this with your real friends first before coming here?

admiN

Stealth

9 months ago

send her flowers for seven days. If she threatens in these seven days, leave her. If she does not accept your apologies in seven days, leave her. If she accepts your apologies, ask her friend if she wanna hangout sometimes.