SnoozyRaccoon
SnoozyRaccoon

Finding partner

Nothing related to work , i want to know how much looks matter in arrange marriage like everything is fine but i am definitely not drew to the person How do i marry such person what if i do not like him ever Please i am not being a jerk I am just ......how do i put it Not into him .....he looks much older than i am my family is like how long will you wait according to them i am already at an ange where i even should have settled with everything which i agree like okay i am 28 but i feel if we are not getting to a kind of person we do not like it's better to not marry at all. I know a person's behaviour is all that matters no money no looks nothing matter it should be a good person i agree but what if i end up not like him ever , i am 28 but Marriage just scares me to the core and also what i am also being made to believe if i look for a average to a bit good looking person he will definitely cheat on me. genuine opinion welcomed please ignore rather than commenting bad.

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DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka

Everyone has different requirements and visions for their life patner. But i tell you my experience
I am very centric child in my family most of relatives brings all filtered matches(like working as so on so ,has money, generational wealth,good looks etc.)for marriage to my home. I usually don't have any interest. But one very fine day my mom spoke I also agreed upon the same. I spoke with two matches both of them were very good looking, working as higher degisnation in big4, having great money and everything is ok. When I spoke with them what I found is one has very loose character . just in two or three chat interection .that was also very normal just about hobbies and everything.He started talking to me in other ways. And was also very very controlling in nature. I observed everything in just two days i gave him closure about my expectations from my would be man. Second guy
He was good respectful but loaded with male ego and everything. Not respecting my work .over demanding related to financial stuffs from spouse after marriage.bit unsecured guy.Not believing in growing and building together. So i denied their as well.

Looks does matters but to the certain extent,age and how you see the person. With the God Grace i look beautiful and have everything which well characted woman should have for his man. But for marriage and love I won't be only looking for good looks and past money he has.

Only intellect character ambitious decent mature nature behaviour Loyality understanding love and care towards me matters. I can grow along with him and will create build big things in life for sure .

If your choice has everything which is required for perfect husband pls go for it. He gonna love you like queen 👑 and so you have to also love him as king 👑
if looks matters you the most then stop juggling into mind. Look for the person who has looks and everything else related to your expectations. But never compromise with your life
Do what makes you happier. Take care
God bless you!

ZestyBurrito
ZestyBurrito

If all good looking men are going to cheat, then what should they do - not marry?

What an absurd thing to say; even an ugly guy/girl can cheat. If you want to go for looks, then damn well go for looks. But remember looks aren't going to help decide if you will like someone or not, that's just infatuation. If you want to spend your lifetime with someone, you will have to look beyond someone's appearance.

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

Looks only matter to a certain extent. Good looking people usually have options too. Upto you what you want in life and how much it matters to you.

Ideally make a list of top 5-10 things you want in a partner, sorted by priority (number 1 highest priority) and be honest to yourself about your expectations first. Once you have them on paper, then you can analyse which are actually more or less important to you.

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