DerpyPenguin
DerpyPenguin

How to find a partner in arrange marriage set up ?

I mean there is fear of so many things, what if we both don't match the vibe, what if he is not supportive, i mean how should a women take decision?

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SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit
Tekion11mo

It's a bet. 50-50 of chances either abaad ho jaoge ya barbad ho jaoge.

JumpyPretzel
JumpyPretzel

I need a laugh reaction grapevin guys!๐Ÿ˜„

FluffyNoodle
FluffyNoodle
Swiggy11mo

There is no such thing like abaad in marriage.. ๐Ÿ˜‚ either way barbaad hi hona hai

GoofyBanana
GoofyBanana

let him know wats ur vibe and interest.. if he is not into it, then you can take decision appropriately.. whether to move frwd or not.

JumpyNugget
JumpyNugget

That's the problem, girls judge quickly and most boys won't open until they are comfortable...

Is this what is known as the opposite attracts?

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys11mo

No, it's known as not being on same page when meeting

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

DM girls on LinkedIn, that's the only way

JumpyNugget
JumpyNugget

LinkedIn pe bhi posh mail mangwana h kya bhai, baade career katam? ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

DerpyPenguin
DerpyPenguin

Bro this sounds so cheap.

BouncyCoconut
BouncyCoconut
  1. Just got to every wedding function, events of your community, you may find someone marriage worthy there.

  2. Find some good relatives whose full time job is matchmaking through whatsapp groups, keep good relations with them, they will keep sending you good biodatas

3.Just make your bachelor existence in the community, majority of people in the community should know that you are the fresh bachelor in the market, they will bring rishtas if you announce yourself in the bachelor market.

Meet and spend time with the person until you are sure that he is the one. Even don't try to judge and reject someone in your first meeting itself, you may not like a person completely in the first meeting, liking evolves as you know the person more and more, give yourself time to know the person completely and then make decision.

BouncyCoconut
BouncyCoconut

And for boys, just wish that you are not the first few boys she is meeting, girls usually have many options to choose from so when they start groom hunting they usually rejects many guys they meet in starting assuming that there will be someone more perfect and suitable for her. Expectations keep decreasing as they meet more and more guys, so just hope you come in her list much later.

JumpyPretzel
JumpyPretzel

Women get so many options that they remain thoroughly confused๐Ÿ™‚

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys11mo

It's not hard.
Step 1 : know what to look for in the person you want to be with( don't have too many hard requirements and don't consider looks like 6ft, handsome etc into hard requirements) - this is indeed hard if you don't know what kind of man you want Step 2 : discuss what kind of life you envision. Take time to know each other. The quirks, the nice things, the things that you need to adjust with each other. Understand if you match each other's expectations, understand behavior traits - empathy, comfort, communication, anger, toxicity etc. Find out if you Match on emotional, physical and psychological level

Step 3 - once you know these things, you'll be able to make out if you wanna spend rest of your life with this man. If not, move on!

This is by far best way to decide where you have complete control over how you want the marriage to turn out

DancingPickle
DancingPickle
SAP6mo

You need to understand what you mean by your โ€œvibeโ€ and what you expect in your partner.
I met a girl who rejected a guy saying โ€œhe doesnโ€™t even like to play badmintonโ€.
Imagine having โ€œthe guy must love playing badmintonโ€ as a criterion for successful marriage.

SnoozyWalrus
SnoozyWalrus

Daalo bumble aur karo masti !!!

FloatingUnicorn
FloatingUnicorn

Just follow money ๐Ÿค‘๐Ÿค‘๐Ÿค‘๐Ÿค‘.women have been doing this for ages .

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